I have never came from a BJ.

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  1. nickthebrick1

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    I have never came from head or from a girl riding me. I am wondering if this is a common problem and what peoples thoughts are about it.
     
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    The riding part yes, I really only cum when im on top. The bj part, kinda... A chick has to be really good, and or work it for a while. Hope that helps man.
     
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    "I have never came from head"

    fairly common

    "or from a girl riding me."

    not very common among straight guys who have had a girl ride them.

    I have some thoughts but could you provide a little more info? How are you able to cum? Are you saying that you don't cum from fucking or you don't cum when she is on top?
     
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    I have had sex last over an hour a few times and no matter how hard a girl rides me i have not had it happen. I have also never came from someone else givng me a handjob. When i give myself an HJ it takes a such long time and my arm feels like i had been lifting weights for hours.
     
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    Do you cum when you're fucking and you are on top?
     
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    yes, but it can still take a very long time to the point here the girl get sore.
     
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    I have cum hundreds of times from bjs, but never from a girl on top....Nornally too slow and grinding...but if it gets her off
     
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    google: delayed ejaculation

    this seems like a much better description of your problem, you have more going on than just not being able to cum from head.

    there's a lot of info available for this. with your size it may be difficult for you to ever cum from head alone, you should be able to greatly improve your situation though.

    good luck.
     
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    that was actually pretty helpful
     
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    i really think ill cum from a bj one day though i just gotta find the right person
     
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    I just googled it, pretty sure i have delayed ejaculation
     
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    you shouldn't have too much trouble finding people willing to try.
     
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    I really wish that could be true ;p
     
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    bring that 10% gay down to SC and....

    really, it seems like you need to work this out first: "When i give myself an HJ it takes a such long time and my arm feels like i had been lifting weights for hours."

    It shouldn't be that difficult to get yourself off. If you can't do it, it's going to be REALLY difficult for someone else.
     
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    I don't cum with my lady on top, i.e. cowgirl but enjoy it because she gets off on it so well and I like the view. It's a good and enjoyable break in the action. I always can cum from a BJ though! Love, love, love good BJs and face-fucking! I'll bet your BJ resistance is technique and your head-space related . . .
     
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    It takes me a while to get off from a blowjob, but if someone rides me it doesn't take long at all.
     
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    all depends on whos doing the riding and sucking.
    so ... sometimes never, sometimes mind-blowing!
    (never had a bj to completion in under 10 mins, usually takes much longer)
     
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    Dont get me wrong i love having a girl ride me and i love having a beautiful girl suck me off. I think thats the reason why not finishing bothers me more then it should.
     
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    I've also never gotten a BJ to completion. The Mrs. gets me close but then tuckers out. The first woman to ever give me head had incredible stamina (probably sucked my dick for close to 20 minutes), but I never even got close with her.

    I can get there with woman-on-top. However, I have noticed I lose some stiffness if I'm too passive, so I inevitably start thrusting into her, which isn't necessarily her "riding." If I just laid there and let her do all the work, who knows? I might have to try that soon just to see.
     
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