I have never came from a BJ.

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I've also never gotten a BJ to completion. The Mrs. gets me close but then tuckers out. The first woman to ever give me head had incredible stamina (probably sucked my dick for close to 20 minutes), but I never even got close with her.

I can get there with woman-on-top. However, I have noticed I lose some stiffness if I'm too passive, so I inevitably start thrusting into her, which isn't necessarily her "riding." If I just laid there and let her do all the work, who knows? I might have to try that soon just to see.
yeah after a while I do the energizer bunny pistoning when i am on the bottom
 
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Dont get me wrong i love having a girl ride me and i love having a beautiful girl suck me off. I think thats the reason why not finishing bothers me more then it should.
I bet you are putting so much pressure on yourself to cum that you are making worse. If your gf doesn't mind, put on your favorite porn and let your mind go.

And if you are willing to drift over to that 10% I would love to break your losing streak :biggrin1:
 

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If I were you I'd look to the 10% of me that is gay and go for a massage with a happy ending - your whole body will be aroused by someone else and you will have to do nothing in return, just relax, enjoy and ejaculate. Once you have cum more easily and cum fromduring a bj it will get easier to do so in other situations.
 

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for some reason i got issues too with people sucking me off... mostly guys sucking me off.
 

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yes, but it can still take a very long time to the point here the girl get sore.

You sound exactly like me. I only cum when I am on top and fucking hard. Everything else feels good, but yet not good enough to make me finish.
 

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Is this true? Shit, the wind can make me cum, if I'm wearing the right shorts. I've cum'd just from sucking cock. So needless to say, I've cum'd about everyway imaginable. Hard to believe that this can be a problem for some guys. MAybe stress, problems on your mind.....shit who knows why.
 

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Takes me forever to cum, period. Except when I jack myself off. It takes me less than a minute. But from a BJ or even sex, it takes more than an hour, even 2 hours.
 

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Strangely if I'm in some cruising situation - like in a place with glory holes, I'll get off in a matter of minutes. Not sure why but if I'm in bed with someone sucking me, it takes forever but poke my dick in a glory hole and I'll cum in minutes. Maybe it's because the person on the other side of the wall is devoted to my cock and really works it and the guy in bed is doing other things; stopping to kiss, etc.