I have never come from a blowjob, how can i achieve this?

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I can cum from penetrative sex just fine, and of course masturbation is no problem. My partner is down to try to help me get past this mental block (or improve her technique, I dunno). I think part of the problem is I feel selfish or can't relax. And part of the problem is probably technique related.

Do you have any super duper simple blowjob techniques that never fail? Or things we should try to get me to cum from a BJ?
 

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Mabe, You've got to give up the idea that the tempo, sensation, the pressure etc, isn't quite the ultimate way you like to cum. You have to adjust to how he or she is doing it, speak up if something hurts and definitely let them know when they are sucking in a manner that is starting to get the elevator moving. I always let someone know when they have hit my "sweet spot" and that they are now doing it how I like it and if they stay on it they are going to get their reward. My SS is just under the head on my frenlum. You can suck me forever but if you don't pay attention to that spot, you ain't going to get nothing and I am just going to have to take over. If I am blowing someone and they have to take matters in hand then I haven't done my job correctly. It's all about paying attention and communicating.
 

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have them start slow and tease the shit out of you for as long as they can handle it. no intense pressure at first, I tend to get desensitized because my wife loves to suck me and she can get a little carried away. I'll feel like I'm really close for like 10 minutes and tend to flex and tense up the whole time and then I'm a little beyond over the top and it takes a year to make me cum after that. Slow starts and delicate, savory sucking for a bit is a good way to get going. Have them slowly add more suction, or deeper sucking, and definitely caressing your balls, that's always nice. As you feel like you could be closer they can add a hand, but slowly at first, and build you up. You should be off to the races! Be selfish and revel in the fact that someone is appreciating your penis like this and is intent to make you orgasm and ejaculate from what they do. Relax and just let go and have no expectations, just slow and build up to it.
 
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