Hey guys. So I can have sex all day long, and deep into the night. But only if I'm on top. Any other position, her on top, doggy (which is awkward cos I just cant aim it right lol) or 69, I go soft. Sometimes really soft and its embarrassing. The other problem which I read is called Retarded Ejaculation, (I've heard it also called ejaculatory overcontrol, which is more appropriate) is that I can't cum when my gf jacks me off/sucks me/does both at the same time. A few times she's made me cum with her hand but I've been pleasuring her at the same time and getting off when she does... So does anyone have any tips for sorting about these problems? Today I had to masturbate myself to the edge then let my girlfriend finish it off. It was cool cos it shot everywhere, we had a laugh about it (there was just a huge mess everywhere!) and my gf was impressed. I can't and don't want to do that all the time. Help please I couldnt find much info on the 'net.