I have so many weird, messed up fetishes... but the internet is a good place for that

[SilverTrain]

I think it's really weird that I like gay porn, at least no female that I know would admit it. But as far as your rape/humiliation stuff...couldnt be any more opposite. That kinda stuff is def. not a turn on to me. To each his own.

What's weird is that the idea of you getting off on gay porn turns me on, but gay porn itself really does nothing for me.


I'm so weird, that it's nice to hear other people talking about their weirdness.

 

[John.Heath]

The sister thing is just a fantasy that I do with guys on yahoo chat and the internet - I wouldn't really want it to happen. Though I have advised her that size does matter and that she should try someone bigger.

The humiliation thing I do enjoy in "real life". And I wouldn't want to be legitimately raped.. but "playing" rape I do enjoy.

I would say that overall you're very normal... most people (me included) have fantasies that they think of but wouldn't necessarily want to act out...

 

[68306]

I can be pretty weird...


I like nice things. Very nice things.

I can be pretty extreme.

 

[D_Helmer Heighballs]

your not weird at all darling, i can relate to alot of the stuff ur saying.

x

 

[tigolbitties]

..i never met a female that admit what you're saying. are you into like 5-6 dudes on you (gangbang)?

I've done such things before..

 

[tigolbitties]

I'm open to talking to any guys interested in talking about any of these topics...
Yahoo: bigtits_n_proud_of_it:

 

[TheRob]

your fantasy's are more normal then you think but two things
1.) cheaters are lousy people
and
2.) stop telling your sister what to do with her life if she dosn't want to fuck a guy just for having a big dick then she's probubly smarter then you

(did that get you wet lol)

 

[TheRob]

I never thought about walking around with cum on my face but the thought is making me wet. I guess I could find a guy, make him get ruff with & grab me by the neck and cum on my face.

"make him get rough with me"
there is something funny about the girl demanding the guy get rough with her lol

 

[TheRob]

I really can't relate to the humiliation stuff, but all women think about the "rape" fantasy and it's much discussed in gender studies courses.

I agree with the feminists who insist that it properly needs to be renamed a "ravishment fantasy" because no woman ever fantasizes that a man that she doesn't actually want to have sex with rapes her. She always fantasizes about some stud that she actually wants, so the fantasy is about some guy a woman desires desiring her back, perhaps roughly or violently and without asking permission, which is a turn-on, if you actually want that guy, which would remove the "rape" part of the "rape." Also, judeo-christian guilt comes into play because if a guy that you burn for takes you without permission, then you aren't a slut for giving it up for him, he made you enjoy yourself on his cock. You can be a good girl and still get to fuck the hot guy if he takes you forcefully. How hot is that?

And that's not really rape, it's a convenient way to get around the societal guilt-trip that is placed upon women's sexuality.

Also, I don't think it's weird to be a straight woman and enjoy gay porn. The guys are usually really hot, they usually enjoy all of it (although I usually can spot gay-for-pay) and they usually don't bother with stupid scenarios, or "sexy face," or really fake orgasms, all porn pet peeves of mine.

when you brought up feminists I got nervous but your post made sence
are you sure these are feminists you agree with?

 

[petite]

when you brought up feminists I got nervous but your post made sence
are you sure these are feminists you agree with?

Both me and TheBoyfriend consider ourselves feminists. I read a lot of pro-porn feminist websites and talk about sexual politics. Maybe you have a stereotyped idea about feminists being ugly man-haters who are anti-sex that needs to be revisited?

It's hard to stereotype feminists because there are so many different "schools of thought" many of them at complete odds with one another. It's not a cohesive group. It's why I said "the feminists who insist" because there are probably other feminists who disagree! There are feminists who are anti-porn, there are feminists who are pro-sexual-empowerment who aren't anti-porn (although no one is for all porn, don't you agree? Some of it crosses everyone's line of acceptability because there is some truly sick stuff out there.)

 

[HiddenLacey]

Haha! I'm full of thought's that I'm sure I shouldn't have. But they're there in my head. I started reading erotica 5-6 years ago and I was hooked. Things I never even heard of became my fantasies. The internet is the place to go to find out everything about what you are thinking. And being to scared to do it, I'm darn sure going to atleast get to read about it Everytime I find something new I'm like.... "ohhhh, so that's how that happens"

 

[L_egit]

Haha! I'm full of thought's that I'm sure I shouldn't have. But they're there in my head. I started reading erotica 5-6 years ago and I was hooked. Things I never even heard of became my fantasies. The internet is the place to go to find out everything about what you are thinking. And being to scared to do it, I'm darn sure going to atleast get to read about it Everytime I find something new I'm like.... "ohhhh, so that's how that happens"

To paraphrase Hobbes; Simply thinking about something can never be a sin because we all think about abhorrent things from time to time. Whether or not we act on them is the important part.

Even then, there are plenty of non mainstream fetishes which aren't wrong in any proper sense other than that they aren't the average person's cup of tea. If you want to pretend a dragon is going to molest you, or that a fully PVC'd up domme is going to tie you down and give you welts with her whip that's purely preference.

In a roundabout way I'm trying to say don't self censor yourself so much!

 

[scottredleter]

I guess I'll consider myself one of your sisters...
I don't know what it means, but I have just about all the same fetishes that you have... go figure. It must mean something.

 

[HiddenLacey]

To paraphrase Hobbes; Simply thinking about something can never be a sin because we all think about abhorrent things from time to time. Whether or not we act on them is the important part.

Even then, there are plenty of non mainstream fetishes which aren't wrong in any proper sense other than that they aren't the average person's cup of tea. If you want to pretend a dragon is going to molest you, or that a fully PVC'd up domme is going to tie you down and give you welts with her whip that's purely preference.

In a roundabout way I'm trying to say don't self censor yourself so much!

I definately censor myself I don't even curse in real life! I'm working through these things though. I never think of anything as a sinful thought. I just don't share them and the one girl friend I talked with some of them about in real life thought most of it was strange. So I've just pushed most of it to the back of my mind. I'm not into the dragon's or the domme's though a Dom I might want to try:biggrin1:

 

[L_egit]

Well, best of luck to you. When you're honest with yourself (and with your partner!) things are quite a lot more enjoyable.

Also: swearing is fun. Pretend you're a pirate while you do it for extra fun.

 

[rob_just_rob]

Fantasies are a great thing.

Just make sure you think hard before trying to live them out.

 

[noface60]

No matter what, nobody has weirder fetishes than I...

Macrophilia, or in other words, a fascination with growth and shrinking, giants and little people. And not that furry animal stuff either... only humans.

So, your fetishes are totally missionary compared to mine X_X

 

[petite]

No matter what, nobody has weirder fetishes than I...

Macrophilia, or in other words, a fascination with growth and shrinking, giants and little people. And not that furry animal stuff either... only humans.

So, your fetishes are totally missionary compared to mine X_X

Giants and little people? Having sex together?

 

[noface60]

Giants and little people? Having sex together?

I know. So weird, right?

No clue why, but it gets me hard as a motherfucker.

Maybe it's the idea of having larger-than-life cocks.

 

[petite]

I think we come up with some of our fetiches with force involved to allow us to have the fantasy. When i was young and not sure of my sexuality, I used to fantasize about a bunch of hot guys raping me. it allowed me to have the fantasy but not be held responsible for it (even if only in my own mind).

I really can't relate to the humiliation stuff, but all women think about the "rape" fantasy and it's much discussed in gender studies courses.

I agree with the feminists who insist that it properly needs to be renamed a "ravishment fantasy" because no woman ever fantasizes that a man that she doesn't actually want to have sex with rapes her. She always fantasizes about some stud that she actually wants, so the fantasy is about some guy a woman desires desiring her back, perhaps roughly or violently and without asking permission, which is a turn-on, if you actually want that guy, which would remove the "rape" part of the "rape." Also, judeo-christian guilt comes into play because if a guy that you burn for takes you without permission, then you aren't a slut for giving it up for him, he made you enjoy yourself on his cock. You can be a good girl and still get to fuck the hot guy if he takes you forcefully. How hot is that?

And that's not really rape, it's a convenient way to get around the societal guilt-trip that is placed upon women's sexuality.

Also, I don't think it's weird to be a straight woman and enjoy gay porn. The guys are usually really hot, they usually enjoy all of it (although I usually can spot gay-for-pay) and they usually don't bother with stupid scenarios, or "sexy face," or really fake orgasms, all porn pet peeves of mine.

I guess I'll consider myself one of your sisters...
I don't know what it means, but I have just about all the same fetishes that you have... go figure. It must mean something.

I just realized that you said pretty much the same thing I said, with the same sort of analogous experience as a gay man! Interesting!

I definately censor myself I don't even curse in real life! I'm working through these things though. I never think of anything as a sinful thought. I just don't share them and the one girl friend I talked with some of them about in real life thought most of it was strange. So I've just pushed most of it to the back of my mind. I'm not into the dragon's or the domme's though a Dom I might want to try:biggrin1:

You don't have to learn to curse. I've really perverted and open sexually and I don't curse. It's just not my persona. That's not to say I never do, but not like these boys here do.

I know. So weird, right?

No clue why, but it gets me hard as a motherfucker.

Maybe it's the idea of having larger-than-life cocks.

Nah, there's tons of porn with hung guys with petite girls. It's fascinating to watch an oversized cock go into a really tiny bottom. TheBoyfriend loves it. It's his favorite kind of porn, for obvious reasons. :tongue: