I have to Admire how Women Love

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this is not an issue its a compliment:
I really have to admire how women in general love us. Guys are stronger physically but women seem to be stronger emotionally. This family friend been staying with me. She been with this man for a long time, he has abused her done this and that, I am not sure if he ever tried to love her unconditionally. Whatever he did she has always come back to him.
I know if I ever found love I would try not to take for granted how dedicated and emotional attached she is willing to be. I hope you ladies have someone whose love and care is mutual
 

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So, you admire this woman for being a doormat?


I prefer to admire a woman for whom I am willing to strive to be a better man than I might otherwise be.
And I wouldn't admire a woman who did not stand up to abuse.
 

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I do not think I said that, I do not believe in someone being a door mat. I said... Women, most, seen to be stronger emotionally, I admire how they love, not because of physical attraction its deeper, its emotional, devotion, whether its bad or good.
Really I am giving a compliment
 

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I have to Admire how Women Love
this is not an issue its a compliment:







Have to agree with you OP
Dont think i have ever posted in Womans Issues, been too scared? ha
however, i do feel your thread is spot on
Have for a lifetime admired Women for the reasons you mention, and have ALWAYS thought the Majority have a far more difficult life than us Males, Some Males,just go out and work, come home and feet up-ish
The Women are a far superior person, there work is never done as has often been said ..
 

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women are not stronger emotionally lol

I beg to differ. We are far more emotional than men, and you would be surprised what we constrain. Yes, we show our emotions readily, but there's so many more than are teeming beneath the surface.

Woe to anyone who tries to pry them out because it could be a veritable Pandora's box. And once the genie has left the bottle you will never get it back in.

Many men I knew had two emotions, and either were pretty apparent just by looking at him.
 

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Proof that women are sometimes stronger then men: children. I dont need to say anymore than that.

And yet, if you ever find yourself trapped in a wrecked and burning car... it will most likely be a man you don't even know who will suffer burns and possible death to try and pull you free.

Strength is relative to what must be endured.

Both men and women are strong in their own ways...

And to the woman who suggested children were proof that women were stronger, I beg to differ.

As a man, many was the time that I had to hold myself back from salving my children's injuries or solving their setbacks... not because every fiber of me wasn't screaming to come to their aid... but because I understood that they would, someday, have to face the world without me, and that nurturing that life-long self reliance in them was more important than comforting any individual ache.

You know what takes real strength? Helping your children get to the point where they don't even need you anymore.
As a father, I know my ultimate objective is to encourage my own obsolescence. To suffer irrelevance, because, sooner or later, you will not be there.

Not saying men are stronger... just that the strengths we each bring to the table are different.

Women are amazingly strong and amazingly loving.
But their willingness to forgive abusvie men is not an example of strength.
 

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OK, childbirth then. If men could have children we would have a federal law where maternity leave lasted six month with time-and-a-half pay.
 

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Gotta agree with phil. Strength isn't something that can be generally defined as attributes in men or women. Any strength you can name someone of either sex has it in spades somewhere. And to the OP i don't know how much i'd call that love either.
 

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I'm not saying it's right for a woman to stay in an abusive relationship. That's obviously just a bad choice. I do see where the OP is coming from though. He's just giving an example (thought it may be a poor one) of unconditional love. Men do have this quality, but I've heard quite a few conversations in my life about how men don't develop emotional attachment as easily as women most of the time.. and when they do can often have more difficulty expressing it.

Men and women both have their strengths.. and I still think it's very sweet of the OP to compliment us for our capacity to love.

To the people saying childbirth makes women more loving.. sometimes Not being able to give birth can make you feel love more deeply too. I say that on the behalf of women like myself who can't have children due to health issues, and on behalf of the men who truly do feel just as deeply for their families as any woman would. Women may generally share a different bond to their children, but a loving father deserves just as much respect for his capacity to Love.
 

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OK, childbirth then. If men could have children we would have a federal law where maternity leave lasted six month with time-and-a-half pay.
meh, if men carried babies we'd have it down to like 4 months by now instead of 9 :D
actually, we would never know, because no man in his right mind would get pregnant. we'd be slurping birth control smoothies, and then there wouldn't be an overpopulation problem anymore, haha

as for the OP: yeah, women do form stronger, more reliable connections than men USUALLY. it is impressive and wonderful. but in the example cited, it is a problem, not something to admire--her bond was formed with a piece of shit that doesn't treat her like a human.