I have to be honest,i often have wondered..

[B_Nick8]

The older people I know say that the things they most regret are the things they haven't done. Word. :wink:

 

[silvertriumph2]

The older people I know say that the things they most regret are the things they haven't done. Word. :wink:

I don't think that age has anything to do with it. There is very little
that I haven't done, and almost nothing that I have not tried or would try. I was always open to experimentation since I was, and still am, of the impression that unless you try something, there is no way that you
will ever know if you will like it or not. Try it once and if you like it then go for it, if you don't then try something else.

At one time I tried being the top, it was new nd exciting at the time and
I did enjoy it, but for only a short time. However, afte a while I found that it no longer turned me on. My likes, dislikes, and priorities, and what
does and does not turn me on, constantly cjamge. It just ins't something that interests me at this time.

But who knows, change is always possible! :wink:

And, Nick, I regret absolutely nothing!

 

[reallyhot]

Well thickhead,
What did you think when the doctor had his finger up there...
did it feel good to you?
Did you take it further in your imagination?

 

[CUBE]

Good grief, thinking about a guy doesn't mean the next step is getting fucked hard up the ass. If you chose to act on the impulse of a guy...it is just about exploring and feeling good and may just be a desire for bonding and closeness.

 

[CUBE]

i feel ashamed thoughwhen i think about guys sexually

Meaning you have these thoughts and then feel shame? Shame is the worst feeling in the world. Many people become conditioned to feel shame when it is not called for. I had a friend that was told in church masterbation was bad....so when he would break down and jack off he felt it was bad. I thought it was terrible he had been conditioned to what is natural and wonderful and actually religious. The sad thing the conditioning eventually extended to his marriage and coming in his wife also was shameful. I say fantasy is your own private business and you should just roll with the flow guy

 

[D_Garmanswait Glassnads]

I'm not experience with either sex and I'm always wondering if I'm gay or straight or bi or curious or whatever, it can be stressful. I can find a guy mega attractive but sex with men has only ever been occasionally interesting to me but then again the same applies to women. I feel like I'm missing out but eventually like with a lot of things happening in my life I prefer to be alone. It is really normal to think about the opposite sex even people who say they don't probably do. Pay attention to guys around you checking out other guys when they say there straight.

 

[silvertriumph2]

I'm not experience with either sex and I'm always wondering if I'm gay or straight or bi or curious or whatever, it can be stressful. I can find a guy mega attractive but sex with men has only ever been occasionally interesting to me but then again the same applies to women. I feel like I'm missing out but eventually like with a lot of things happening in my life I prefer to be alone. It is really normal to think about the opposite sex even people who say they don't probably do. Pay attention to guys around you checking out other guys when they say there straight.

I wouldn't worry, track,
I'm not sure if you are really worried, but sexual awakening comes early for some and later for others. Let it come naturally, and just go with the flow. I think you'll know soon, since you have already found and are on this site (and, maybe others, too) and are already questioning. That shows maturity and I believe, my friend, that changes will soon be
"a'cumming" for you, as they say! So, get ready!

It is my personal belief that we are hardwired sexually at birth and that you can't just "decide" later what you are, by picking one from column "S" or one from column "G", or one from column "B", or one from "C". You should know what orientation you "prefer," or if not you soon will. So, I am not sure if the best thing would be to "try" different things out looking for your "preference." I would give it a wait see, for a while.

Good Luck with whatever choice (oh what an awful word!)...slot you find is meant for you. Much Happiness to you, buddy. Keep us informed

 

[2322]

hey changing the subject you know guys that that suck there own dicks does that make them gay anyone know

No more than enjoying their own hand makes them gay. Think about it. If you're willing to jack yourself off then how gay does it make you if you get off with your mouth instead? Gays can give each other handjobs too. It's YOUR cock just like it's YOUR hand and YOUR mouth. Shit man, if you can do that, go for it!

Hell, if you look at yourself in the mirror and think, "Damn! I look sexy today!," does that make you gay? Pfft.

Every definition of homosexuality includes a definition of being attracted to other people of the same sex. Jacking off, admiring your looks, or sucking yourself doesn't even make you text book gay.

 

[Randyvoorburg]

I say go for it, try it. If it doesn't work the first time try it again. There's nothing wrong with experimenting. I find most men in your situation are just afraid of "becoming gay." Or end up liking gay sex more. If you enjoy sex with women now that's not gonna change all of the sudden just because you have sex with a man. According to many behavioral scientists majority of people are essentially around the center of the sexual spectrum, hardly anyone is "purely" gay or straight, so what's stopping you from satisfying your curiousity? Go for it, put on some straight porn to help you out, male energies have a totally different chemistry when together in bed, so enjoy it, don't miss out.