I'm 22, haven't been laid in 4 years now. No clue why--I'm a decent looking guy I think (hi ladies how's it going haha) but I'm beginning to think I'm afraid of being sexually active again. I was in high school for 6 months (lost my virginity in senior year), but we were just fuck buddies I guess. We "broke up", and I haven't gotten back on the horse yet...or she hasn't gotten back on me I should say. PLENTY of opportunities, but each time I turn down the girl. I've resorted to lots more jerking off, I've even showed my goods for a lady on this site, but it was at her request. I'm not into men, but I just don't get what my deal is. Committment issues? There such thing as a phobea of intimacy? Someone help. A girl's advice would help. PM if you want... I got one hell of a story that goes with it if interested. Any suggestions? Should I just relieve this dry spell or wait for something more since I've waited so long anyway?