novacth: Granted, I haven't had sex with my girlfriend yet, so to speak, but any time she services me, it seems that the amount of time that passes between her starting and her finishing is practically nothing. I would guess that I can hold out for about three to five minutes on a blowjob, tops. Now, there have been a few cases where my girlfriend has used my penis as a means of achieving her orgasm (I think two or three times). What we did for these was put a condom on me, then just focus on her. The first time, though, I had to pull out and quit because I was on the verge of ejaculation mere seconds after entering her. So, the next two times, she would blow me first, then I would work on her until my penis was up to achieving an erection once again. Even then, though, I still feel like I'm going to ejaculate, but I somehow manage to hold it off (I guess the little guy's tired). She had sex before she met me a couple dozen times with one guy she dated in high school, but he was average and we haven't had many sexual experiences outside oral in the four years we've been together. As a result, she's still pretty tight and can't really take me all the way, yet. After a blowjob, though, getting up to my max isn't exactly easy, if you know what I mean. On top of that, I'm on Propecia, so my ejaculate loads are considerably less and my erection doesn't respond quite like it used to. Keep in mind I'm only 22. Now that you've got the backstory, here comes the questions. What I want to do is cut out "round two." That is to say, the whole oral on me to oral on her to vaginal stimulation on her (as opposed to vaginal stimulation on me B)) doesn't seem like the most efficient way or even the best way for her to get her kicks. I've always considered myself quite a gentleman in the bedroom, bringing her to orgasm first, then allowing her to go to work on me, if she so pleases. I want nothing more than to please her because I've always been a big fan of the female orgasm. I've also always felt that my "inadequacies" get in the way of her pleasure, although I would never hear her admit that (God bless her). Am I unfounded in my feeling of inadequacy? I've tried PC muscle exercises (hell, I do them all the time) but they never seem to work out for me extending my sexual activity time. Are there any pills I can take or something along those lines to help me last longer in the bedroom (Why do I feel like a spam email?) This post turned out a lot longer than I expected, and for that I apologize. Thank you for sticking with me, though. I really appreciate it. It seemed a lot shorter in my head... Cliff's Notes: I cum quick, feel inadequate and am looking for a way to extend that. Suggestions?