Well, im 19 now, haven't had any sex encounters yet and I really want to figure out what im doing wrong. I am the kinda guy who has no problems picking up chicks, dates, anything like that. I don't need any help there. My problem is the sex part. I don't know how to go about initiating it. I am at a point where Im hornier than Ive ever been and want to get in on the act. A little about me: I was brought up in a way that was abstinance only and stay away from girls. I never was able to have ladies over or anything like that and when I did hang out with them id get nagged to the point that I just said forget it, not worth it. So I went all through highschool and didn't try, porn + masterbation got me by for that. I went away to college and had quite a change. My social skills sky rocketed, got in shape, bunch of other changes, and a complete different mindset. It took a while for it all to sink in and Ive tried but Ive choked up already in a few situations that I knew couldve done the trick. Help me out here, I feel like I am missing out on a lot, would at least like to try it out and see what it's like. Lately Ive gotten quite intimate with females on occasions and I never really realized what that was like. So I know im in for a treat. So all in all, once you can get the ladies, what do you do next?