... though I'm thinking about an apadravya. I've read it provides extra stimulation to the clit and G spot, and between making women feel even better and swaggering around town with a piece of metal straight through my cock head I'm sold. Any advice from our wise elders would be appreciated though.
I had an apdadravya for a few years... I actually abandoned it for reasons having to do with my partner.
For one, the metal ball on the top of the head was tending to bruise my woman's cervix. Her gynecologist commented on it several times... and it can lead to some unpleasant complications...
This was at least partly due to the combo of my length versus her depth... if you don't generally "bottom out" when giving a girl a good pounding, it might not be a problem for you.
But another clincher for me was that this woman gave really deep oral...
More than one time she took it deep enough that the upper ball and stud got caught BEHIND the soft palate at the back of her throat. This is like a blunt fish hook situation...
The intelligent thing to do is to push a little deeper, then twist your head and neck to the side to disengage the stud... but when the person giving you head can't breath and suddenly finds she can't de-throat you... chances are she won't react calmly.
When that happens the girl panics and tries to pull herself off of you rather violently... tearing her palate and doing considerable damage to the end of your wang.
As with cervical bruising, this might not be a problem if your girl doesn't take it very deep.
So the best solution would have been to switch to a large heavy gauge ring that would pass entirely thru the head.
Being round and continuos... there would be no way it could get caught...
And when I drove deep during intercourse the ring would swivel to either one side or the other of the head, thereby not striking the cervix.
Well I tried this for a while, and it worked great for her... the ring entirely thru the head, and the way it chaotically flipped to the side on entry and to straight out during withdrawl really hit her G spot perfectly...
But it was agony for me.
The few years of wearing the straight stud had healed a straight hole thru the head of the cock... when I wore a curved ring thru that much meat it was uncomfortable, but when I got an erection the spongiform tissue deep in the head tried to expand and that really hurt...
when the ring would change position from flipped to one side to the other, the curve thru the erect tissue would have to bend with it... and that was quite painful.
I ended up going back to the PA... but I can not help but wonder if I had taken a year or so to stretch out that hole so that the Ring would have fit a little more loosely....
But I really couldn't have taken a year off of sex...
Any how... it also takes nearly a year for an apadravya to heal all the way thru... while you can have sex with it after only about 3 or 4 weeks.... that actually slows the healing process and can open you to the risk of infection...
But the biggest issue is that you will not be wanting to take out the stud from an apaddravya for the first 8 months or year, without sliding another stud into the hole... just to make it easier to get the stud back in. ( you want to do this frequently just to clean the stud)
You essentially use the replacement stud to push the normal stud out and vice versa after cleaning.
So... figure, if you want to get one, and it turns out to not be good for your partner, that it will be about 6 months before you can have sex WITHOUT the stud....and still be able to get the stud back in without doing some damage and slowing healing.
