This doesn't feel like a problem for me per se, but it seems like I'm different in this regard than a lot people I encounter. I really really like fucking and if I don't fuck, I don't really feel like I've had sex. I love what my cock can do inside someone and I've made myself a great fucker. I don't mind blowjobs--if someone can do it well, well it feels great. But that always feels like the appetizer before the main course. I'd rarely be happy with just a blowjob. I don't really get the appeal of mutual JO--I can do that myself. I know people that have relationships that don't involve any fucking and I can't imagine that for myself--I don't think I could ever have a long term relationship where fucking was not involved. I think if I wasn't hung, I wouldn't be as into fucking, but that's just a theory. Is anyone else fuck-focused? How do you handle meeting people who aren't?