I just want revenge. Is that so wrong?

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It's the reason why I like my subs/ pain sluts<--legitimate D&S term.

When my demons rise I can exorcise them with the fall of a whip, with screams, with rising scarlett welts decorating the flawless pale expanse of back skin.

both calming and arousing.
 

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Revenge is a dish best served cold...like in a cold shoulder...or cold as in not at all...as in nonexistent. All it does is show the person your pissed with, the extent of how much you still care. Sure, in all honesty it will make you feel good, for a split second, but after that well....
 

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The best revenge is indifference. It's a big let down for people who think that they are jerking your chain. When you get angry or upset, the other person knows that he/she still has a strong emotional influence on you. I've been manipulated by my own feelings before, and have learned that it's self-defeating behavior. It's not always easy to walk away and leave it alone, yet moving forward is the only healthy option that we have.
 

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As a Smithsian Moral Sentimentalist (i.e. a douchbag who has read some philosophy), I think revenge is a totally natural part of human behaviour and a good way of enforcing moral standards.

Personally i've taken revenge on certain people whove made my life hell. But sometimes the best revenge is to show them that you've moved on and become stronger.

Other times the best revenge is to take them down a few notches...

No I'm not going to elaborate :p
 

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I think revenge is a totally natural part of human behaviour and a good way of enforcing moral standards.

But sometimes the best revenge is to show them that you've moved on and become stronger.
I'd be more worried if you didn't initially consider revenge. :rocketwhore:
We've all felt the fiery rage that can very easily blind us into thinking "getting even" is the best option, but it's always best to let emotional maturity reign supreme.

Every moment you waste on someone who disrespects you, is a moment you're losing out on to improve yourself (and maybe even find someone who will treat you "right")... :cool:
 

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I wish I could say that I am better than this... but I have fucked exes to get back at other exes, have fucked their close friends, and have gotten their girls to do all kinds of things that the woman I wanted revenge on knew I wanted but never would do for me... Again, while I am somewhat ashamed, i still am only human and am apparently no better than most...
 

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The best revenge is indifference. It's a big let down for people who think that they are jerking your chain.

When you get angry or upset, the other person knows that he/she still has a strong emotional influence on you.

I've been manipulated by my own feelings before, and have learned that it's self-defeating behavior. It's not always easy to walk away and leave it alone, yet moving forward is the only healthy option that we have.

This is so 'spot on' and so very true with me.
 

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Revenge can fill so good. But it can be a double bladed knife. when my man cheated I was so hurt but I didn't get even and now I'm happy I didn't because I forgave him. It would have bother me if I had cheated on him just to get back at him