so i have a friend in san diego. i'm in the south. we used to work together and hang out. she has been gone close to a year (in june.) things are not going well for her, but i went into a deep depression when she had left, so little sympathy there. it was her choice to move. she invited me to come visit her in august as there is a wrestling ppv in los angeles that she wants to go to. she wanted to meet in houston for wrestlmania (more practical), but i would not be able to take the time off. there are places that i would like to visit in san diego and l.a., not just her, but the thought came to my mind if she would do the same for me. it will be a big chunk of change and i still have feelings for her. so emotionally it would not be healthy for me. so who would take the chance? and no i would not be crashing with her and i would have to get a rental car. opinions?