I like cocks, but I don't like guys.

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I am dealing with the same situation I guess. I started checking out cocks from like 2 years ago. Big cocks, like mine. I also did some webcam sessions with some big-cocked guys. I am a heterosexual, I would never have sex with another male in real life, I find that disgusting and immoral. I love my big cock: the shape, uncut, length etc. I guess that's why I had interest in other big cocks. It was kind of 'adventurous' & exciting which made me horny. I stopped for some months now, the idea made me sick. I never ever had the same interest in my past life, I always adored girls. I see it as a phase. The 2 years I'm talking about were 2 years of instability, mental problems, I couldn't think clear. I was physically alive but mentally dead. I woke up and realized I was doing things that I would actually never do, it is against my ideals. I now feel like a scandelous guy, a moron. I can never turn it back, I already did it. I wish I never did it, I would love to have a relationship with a nice girl but I'm not worth it anymore. Bad thoughts about myself are currently dominating my life, I feel like shit.

this might be a normal phase in the life as an adolescent? I don't know. 1 thing is sure: I never had sexual attraction to another guy in real life. I always chased the girls. It is now time to accept what I did and move on.

I feel sorry for you that you have had experiences in your life that would cause you to feel such high-levels of self hatred and confusion. Although, considering how sexuality is handled by many, I can understand where you're coming from. My greatest hope for you is that you learn to manage your own feelings of self-worth. I'd like to challenge you on your statements regarding sexual interest in guys. I personally don't feel there is anything immoral or wrong about liking or being sexually interested in guys if you are a guy. What's immoral or wrong is making others feel like pariahs or outcasts for their feelings. I hope you find some positive role models or outlets where you can see there are millions of caring, wonderful and well-adjusted men who are sexually into men. Good luck--you are worth being loved, love yourself.
 

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how does one go about sucking their own cock?

You do a lot of stretching exercises and yoga. You throw your legs up over your head so that your knees are almost touching the floor behind your head. If you've got to this point, then your dick should be either in or very close to your mouth. The rest is child's play. Just start sucking. :biggrin1:
 

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if is SEX with another man you want but have any issue about how to 'get there' TRY having a j.o. buddie... it's a good way of start something physical, detached from any initial feeling.
if your searching for the confirmation YOUR normal, and although considering yourself str8, YOU like cock... YES you're 100% normal. IT'S typical of men to be obsessed with dick. we start by our own one, and then comes gym class in school...

JUST one personal question... HOW can you suck yourself? WHEN young I was able to, but NOW, after gaining some pounds, I no longer can... :(
 

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Anyone else feel the same as me? I'm sure there are lots. I love looking at cocks and often fantasize about sucking another guys cock (I've spent LOTS of time sucking my own), but whenever there's an actual male personality attached I completely lose interest in sexual activity. Anyone feel the same way? If you wanted to try sucking another man's cock, how did you go about it?

Ok am I the only one that gets a little tired of these kinds of posts? I don't want to be hard on anyone who is dealing with stuff...but I'm pretty sick of of all these straight guys that seem to love cock. Where are all the 100% gay guys that love pussy? I realize sexuality isn't black and white but still let's try and be honest with yourself here. I realize we are taught by many that homosexuality is so horrible that some guys come up with rather creative ways to cope with their own attractions. I'm not saying every guy that looks at a cock is gay but come on guys...
 

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count me in... i'm 100% in sync with u... :tongue:
Anyone else feel the same as me? I'm sure there are lots. I love looking at cocks and often fantasize about sucking another guys cock (I've spent LOTS of time sucking my own), but whenever there's an actual male personality attached I completely lose interest in sexual activity. Anyone feel the same way? If you wanted to try sucking another man's cock, how did you go about it?
 
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I often wonder about sucking my friend cock.
It all started when i was 14 when my friend said he saw hi bothers cock in the shower and ever since then i wanted to suck his cock

p.s my friend said he had a very huge flop and even bigger erect
 

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Anyone else feel the same as me? I'm sure there are lots. I love looking at cocks and often fantasize about sucking another guys cock (I've spent LOTS of time sucking my own), but whenever there's an actual male personality attached I completely lose interest in sexual activity. Anyone feel the same way? If you wanted to try sucking another man's cock, how did you go about it?

I love guys especially the cute ones, and I have decided that I will not suck any dick except my boyfriend's. By the way, I have seen several cocks, and haven't tried sucking one yet.
 

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It's all very complicated in a way. You want to do something that feels good and yet a lot of people are saying you cannot because it is not supposed to be something straight guys like to do, and that is suck another dude's cock but not do anything else. Sex and sexuality is so really fluid and I do not think you should be nailed down in anything in any way and just enjoy what comes down the line and quit with the guilt and label fanatics out there.
 

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I have the same issue. I like cock but don't like guys. I like some tgirl porn but most are too manly or are paired with a regular guy.
 

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It's all very complicated in a way. You want to do something that feels good and yet a lot of people are saying you cannot because it is not supposed to be something straight guys like to do, and that is suck another dude's cock but not do anything else. Sex and sexuality is so really fluid and I do not think you should be nailed down in anything in any way and just enjoy what comes down the line and quit with the guilt and label fanatics out there.

I agree with you. Sexuality is very complicated. You can be attracted to dick, but still consider yourself straight. Sexual orientation is defined by attraction, but it doesn't have to be physical attraction alone. I think people should be able to define their own sexual orientation however they want.

I love looking at huge breasts on a woman, and I've had a few sexual dreams about women, but I have no real-life interest in pussy, so I usually call myself 99% gay. :smile:
 

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It is not as complicated an issue as it is being made out to be here. Simply find a cock, not a guy, and go at it. It is not that hard to find a cock. Try one of the many personal sites on the web. I really should not have to explain the male brain here so I want. The fact is there are plenty of cocks available and the guys attached to them are as disinterested in you as you are in them once the action stops. Just do it!
 

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Maybe you feel like that because your first attempt to enjoy a cock was with a supid owner. I had similar cases where guys first showed interest to go futher and then they got mad because a super stupid str8 ego woke up. So just focus on your point of interest and forget the owner.
 

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Anyone else feel the same as me? I'm sure there are lots. I love looking at cocks and often fantasize about sucking another guys cock (I've spent LOTS of time sucking my own), but whenever there's an actual male personality attached I completely lose interest in sexual activity. Anyone feel the same way? If you wanted to try sucking another man's cock, how did you go about it?
I feel the same way. I've tried posting ads on here & Craigslist, but haven't had any luck. What's a guy gotta do to suck a big cock around here? Haha
 

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I feel the same way. I've tried posting ads on here & Craigslist, but haven't had any luck. What's a guy gotta do to suck a big cock around here? Haha


Try actually communicating with another guy. It does wonders. It's pretty difficult to find big unattached dicks (as in dicks that are not attached to a male). I would say you've got a fantasy that won't ever been fulfilled until you start looking at what you want and why. Good luck.