i like gay porn but i hate gay sex

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  1. nicko680

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    hi, i was wondering wether any other guys were like this! i wank off to gay porn but i can't even get a hard with another guy when having sex!! only with women! and even the guy that i have wanted to do sometihng with for years i had the chance but i just couldn't get hard!does anyone else have this problem and it is not because ui am nervous because with women i have no problem getting a boner!
     
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    My porn collection, which runs into hundreds of GBs, is 3/5 straight, or at least has women in it as participants (gangbang, bi, rough str8 sex, pegging/strapon, etc), and I'm about as gay as anyone gets.

    Porn is fantasy, not reality; fantasizing is not the same as doing. Open a window and let in some light and fresh air :wink:
     
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    You can like gay porn a lot and not be gay. I'm not sure why most folks can't get that through their thick skulls. Sadly, it's due to the fact that so many people are so clueless about human sexuality since they're so clueless about their own.

    We each have a unique sexuality, despite our preferences/orientations.

    I'm sure there are men who jack off to both lesbian and gay porn (I'm one of them!).

    Don't let a silly society tell you who you are sexually.:wink:
     
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    To the original poster, I ask- if you can get off to two men having sex, what exactly is it that stimulates you? I watch gay, straight, and bisexual porn. Then again, I'm sexually bisexual, but I lead my life as a gay male. I'm completely open about who I am, and I accept what I like and what I enjoy. I ask you why you can't get hard- is it not the sexual stimulation? Or is it fear? Is bisexuality or homosexuality acceptable in your life, and with your family? I guess what I'm asking, is it not sexual arousal or is it shame? That's a legit question by the way, just curious. And if it is, let it go, and have your fun.
     
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    That's funny, I enjoy having sex with men but very little gay porn turns me on.
     
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    Hilarious...and I agree!:tongue::wink:
     
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    ok thanks you guys! anyone else ahve a thought on this?
     
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