I Like To Watch

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  1. UncleBob

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    Porn is fine, but it's always the same over-the-top weird camera angles of sex between two people who met 4 minutes before the camera started rolling. He strokes inside her for 5 minutes, she makes sounds like a dying animal, then he pulls out and cums on her chest or face. Bor - ing!

    I want to see real people having real sex. I want to see kissing and eye contact and full body contact and more than anything, I WANT TO SEE WOMEN HAVING ORGASMS. So a week ago, I posted this ad on Craig's List:


    "Real sex is hot, but hard to find online or on DVD. I want to watch you have sex with each other -- the sex you'd have if I wasn't there. I don't want to participate, just spectate. I'm available evenings and weekends; you host. Send a picture or include your first names so that I don't accidentally show up to watch my 6th grade teacher or aunt and uncle getting it on. Use "voyeur" in the subject to avoid being deleted."


    The respons I've received have been incredible, both in number and in content. I have two "appointments" today, am trying to work something out for tomorrow, and will hopefully be spending next weekend with a couple, watching and filming them.

    Do you like to be in the room when two people are having sex? Why?
     
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    I love watching other people get down! I could see myself joining a swinger's club just to watch others fuck.
     
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    Yes I do enjoy watching people. When they are really into each other and really enjoy the sex, the shared experience is hot. Watching the real thing is far better than any porn. Watching lovers who deeply love one another is so touching, very moving. Not just for the raw sex - but also for the way they touch and caress one another and how they speak to each other.

    Since I've been in uncounted number of threesomes, I've watched two women go at it bed right next to me - usually right before or right after I had sex with one or both of them. I've also watched male-female couples have sex. Getting invited to watch and join their shared play is a real privilege.
     
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    Hmm, interesting thread, interesting ideas.

    I was wondering that if two people are really in love with each other, they wouldn't like to show off. Sex would be a very private thing for them. If they agree to show it, then I would begin to doubt that they are really in love with each other. The showing-off comes first to my mind.

    I've seen some porn where the actors could be said to be in love with each other. Probably they were not, but they were so tender with each other, there was so much kissing and hugging and caressing that it didn't look like real porn at all, it didn't look as if they were simply performing.

    This kind of porn is rare, but you can find it with a bit of luck. Strange to say this, but I think it could be even slightly more common for homosex porn than for straight porn. My impression is that the ladies in most straight porn want it to finish as soon as possible and are not really into displaying love, affection or whatever could come across as such. Maybe I haven't watched enough, lol.
     
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    Gotta disagree with you there, Joca. I am madly in love with my man and we have had sex in front of others. When we visit friends in other states, we crash with them and sometimes in a smaller apartment (and based on timing) someone would come home while we were going at it (or vice versa). We don't stop and don't expect them to stop either. They can stand and watch if they want. Doesn't bother us.

    Not being uptight about who sees us having sex is in no way any indication of how strongly we care for one another.
     
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    I've been in the room with two people that are having sex and it's a big turn on. The only thing is, half-way through I get really horn and I wanna join in. lol

    -A.B
     
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    i love being in the same room
    your sharing an very intimate
    part of someone elses life plus
    watching other people have sex
    "live" is way more erotic than watching
    a porn you cant get involved in at any time c:
     
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    Watching a close buddy of mine fucking my wife is incredibly exciting!
     
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    I have never had the opportunity to watch as others had sex but I can imagine what a turn on it would be. I'd love to watch but I'd probably get so horny I'd want to join in. One of my biggest fantasies is watching to *striaght* gorgeous hung men have their first BJ experience with the same sex. For some reason the thought of watching that gets my motor running on high! Not so much for two women.
     
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    I want to watch a well-hung man, preferably a Latino guy, pounding a petite blonde with pink pussy. It would be a thrill to watch the LIVE sex show.
     
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    My wife and I watched another couple. Really exciting. We "assisted" in that my wife could guide him dick into his wife and then both of us could suck on her tits at the same time, which his wife said was absolutely thrilling. I know her nipples were hard as rocks when he shot his cum load. They did the same for us and it absolutely great sex to have people watching and helping put my dick into my wife. Great fun.
     
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    Hi Lex

    Wow, it's been ages since I last heard that phrase: to be madly in love with. You should consider yourself to be a fulfilled person, lol.

    Now, I don't think that your partner and you are exactly showing off when you are lovemaking. It just happens. It is nothing planned ahead. This is different from a couple who knows that they are going to have an audience. In this case, the exhibitionism seems to lead the way.

    In any case, I for one would like to preserve my intimacy with someone I really loved. What is shared with a purpose seems to lose some of its essence, but what do I know?
     
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    Well, we have also had group sex experiences (not planned, persea), in which case, you also know someone(s) is(are) watching at different points in time. I don't see how planning impacts or undermines mutual feelings.

    I get your point about wanting to keep your intimacy to yourself (we do the same most of the time), but at the same time, I don't get the inherent value judgment in assuming that a couple that may plan to have exhibitionist sex loves less deeply than one that does not.

    Why can't it be that each of us likes what we like and as long as things are consensual and between and among adults, all is well?
     
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    I would enjoy the opportunity to observe, but it has never occurred. It could be fun being the technical advisor.
     
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    When partners or friends have been in the room when I had sex, the last thing I wanted was some armchair quarterback calling the moves or some "technical advisor" giving me suggestions. It spoils the mood.
     
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