I love being a sexual mentor!

Discussion in 'Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy' started by Joseph, Jul 2, 2009.

  1. Joseph

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    Yes, I really LOVE being a sexual mentor… and no, by that I don’t mean I have sex with guys who are virgins and slowly teach them all moves while slowly taking away every bit of virginity from their bodies. I’m a virgin myself after all! (So I guess that fantasy will have to wait a few years <grin> )

    Anyhow, as said I’m still a virgin so no skill nor experience, but I already noticed that sexuality is a complex matter and there’s more to it… like knowledge and psychology. And I think for a guy who’s never been having any kind of sex, I know quite a bit. But I would NEVER jump ahead to someone and say I’m an expert or something! I mean, I’m still sexually confused and I keep getting frustrated over this issue, how could I help someone out? Surprisingly lately more and more often I hear from my friends that I actually did help them!

    Like I’ve admitted to some people that I am on LPSG and post my photos here, some of the guys called me BRAVE and COURAGOUS! I kept saying I was not, cause I am under a hidden identity here and I don’t show my face in the photos, but they kept insisting I was. One guy admired my behavior and said he’d be more open about his sexuality from now on and will try like me to explore it.

    I was even able to help another person who like me has the sexuality dilemma. I helped him realize that there is a thing like bisexuality and he just because most of his friends are gay and he mostly watches gay porn doesn’t mean he’s 100% gay.

    And the newest person has a complex with his fetish (I’m not revealing what it is exactly, but believe me, it’s nothing major, but he gets so frustrated with it) and thanks to me, he opens up about it step by step, I reveal to him I met people with similar preferences like he on LPSG etc etc. He really is always so sad when I have to leave, cause he loves these conversations so much, he feels so much better after them.

    I just wrote this thread to express how GREAT it feels to aid people in such a way!
    1) It feels good to know I’ve helped a friend understand himself better and comfort him
    2) It gives me confidence, it makes me feel as if I knew something useful
    3) Talking about sex is fun! Hehe

    Anyone else likes to aid others with their sexual knowledge? If you’re a person that prefers to teach others in a practical way rather than in terms of spirit and knowledge, share your stories too!
     
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    i hope i was in more social context where i could be that open with people but i dont have that opportunity often... it feels liberating to be honest about some of these stuff because theyre so tabboo.... and hey... admitting stuff might lead to some interesting sexual escapades! maybe some day...
     
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    correct vlls, it's taboo and it's so horrible! I spend my childhood hiding my sexuality, lying to myself that i'm 100% straight... being worried about my size... being unsure if what i feel is right ... The society and judgment of others made me worry, but some of the people on this forum and my online friends (of which some I got to know on this forum) gave me courage, hope and confidence, so I feel nice being able to give the same to my other friends.

    And yes sexual escapades hehe.... Now, NO! I would never demand a friend of mine to have sex with me just because I helped! Besides... I can tell most of them are VERY thankful and most likely I wouldn't have to demand a thing hehe :wink:
     
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