I Love Hearing Guys Degrade My Wife--Am I Strange??

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  1. fieldsb4

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    I know it sounds strange--we've been married a long time and there is nothing wrong with our relationship. She is still very good looking but I have a fetish now that I love hearing guys talk about her and all her flaws. Sounds strange I know but...I do enjoy it.
     
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    If you posted pics here I'm sure some would help you out with your fetish, lol.
     
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    I like to read people's thoughts and when they think mean things about ManlyBanisters I follow them home and beat them with a cricket bat.
     
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    yeah...

    it's a harmless fetish but i can't help finding you seriously creepy.

    i hope your wife never finds out. be very careful about that.
     
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    Sounds strange to me. Not sure how anybody could enjoy something like that.
     
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    during sex i enjoy being degraded by my man but i have never known people who like to hear it from strangers. You are strange it is just what turns you on.
     
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    I wonder what kind of people you are around with that pick out her flaws? A weird fetish but who am I to judge.
     
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    Yes ur strange for loving that disgusting,dirtball pig of a filthy whore u call a wife. Ur welcome. I'm just trying to be funny.
     
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    Odd fetish.imo
     
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    I wonder if you'd enjoy being divorced as equally?

    Christ the god damned loons are coming outta wood work just lately.

    Are you Americans having some sort of vacation/holiday over there at the moment?
     
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    sph to boot!
     
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    This doesn't sound like a fetish at all. It is just sad....for your wife.
    You seriously need to get some help with this.
     
    #14 piratebulldog, Nov 14, 2011
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    Seems like a very unusual fetish to me.

    As for me, a man speaking like that to my wife would have a very angry and capable me to deal with.

    Unusual world we live in I guess.
     
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    So if someone called your wife a "lard-assed bitch" instead of defending her honor you'd start touching yourself?
     
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    stranger is one letter short of strange.
     
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    could it be because it somehow makes you feel better because you are small and maybe that puts you "on equal playing field"?

    is a strange fetish for sure...
     
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    I see this as just another form of humiliation fetish.

    Someone verbally degrading your wife is humiliating to you by association.

    This is only as weird as any other humiliation fetish. So in some people's eyes, yes very weird. In others, it's just another permutation of an already popular fetish.
     
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