I made a mistake with friends

Discussion in 'Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy' started by PowayWolfman, Jan 4, 2007.

  1. PowayWolfman

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    Ok,,,, I totally boned things up this time...

    Mostly this sprouted out of a rumor that started way back in high school when i nearly slept with another female friend in my group. But she back out after i got hard. She promised not to tell anyone about my size but the next morning i got voice males from all my friends starting with

    Hey big boy
    or
    hey, i hear their is a horse loose in poway

    or some shit like this

    well. now fast forward to current day and a promise i made to a different member of the group that if i got pierced i would show it to her...

    As some of you know, i got my cock pierced a few months back..I did this for my own enjoyment and love my 8-gauge PA. Well, one of my female friends really wanted to see it. She just would not stop about the promise i made that if i got one i would show her.. well. the only picks i had were of me hard, so i sent her two of those.. I figured what did it matter right..

    I was wrong.. It was like high-school all over again, I got text messages, emails, comments on my Misplace page, and even a letter from two of the other girls in my cast of friends who admitted to always having a crush on me...

    My one friend send the two picks out to the entire cast and now im once again in the spot light (not a place i want to be) my male friends are totally ridding me and calling me "Bronco" again and its getting on my nerves.. (the bronco was the mascot for my highschool)

    what should I do on this guys,, surelly some of you must have been outed cock wise and have thought up ways of getting the attention off you???

    This really needs to be cleared up because in 6 months we are all getting together for a massive private reunion.. Its gunna be huge will all 42 of us together for the frist time since we graduated in 1995. I dont wanna be greeted on stage as (and here's Horse hung Nick the DICK, The RB Bronco!)
     
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    Dude your hot, and you have a large cock. Some guys would love to be in your position. I would honestly just take it as it comes. Being known for being hung can't be all that bad can it? If you really don't want to then I guess keep quiet about it, and don't forward anymore pictures, or let people see in person as opposed to sending pictures. You could always say they aren't your pictures, but I think it's too late for that.
     
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    MY thought is:

    Tell your friends that you are uncomfortable with the attention. Explain to them that you are more than just a peirced cock. They will get the point if you are serious about it.
     
  4. dannymawg

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    Yep - looks like yer gonna have to do damage control, Wolfman.

    But TK is right - you got a lot of other things going for you. Something tells me you can't go back to the sources and ask to stop the riding - you've already made the bed with the promise of the PA peek, and sent pics.

    I'd just smile real big and say as little as possible when it happens :biggrin1:
     
  5. chicagosam

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    Hopefully, major strides in maturity have happened to your classmates and you will be able to go to your reunion as yourself, and not as "horse hung Nick the Dick, the RB bronco." Don't give in to their lurid fascination. They are doing it just to get an embarrassed reaction out of you You're a good man, and have far more than that for people to be impressed with. Be proud of who you are, and ignore them and their infantile obsession with what you have. You know how these things go: as soon as the next thing comes along to gossip about, all will be forgotten. Just smile at them: all those guys would kill to be you, and the ladies would give anything to experience you. You are in the winners circle here, PW.
     
  6. dannymawg

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    I dunno man...

    Now that I think about this some more... I hear you on the hassle thing, and jeff said it well about you telling them yer more than a just pierced cock, but can't help but think - now there's some ice broken, and action to be had? :biggrin1:
     
  7. D_N Flay Table

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    I know where you are coming from,
    sometimes being larger than average is like taking Karate..
    all of a sudden, everyone wants to see you brake a piece of wood or some shit like that...

    I wouldn't worry to much about it.

    it could be worse, there was a guy in my highschool that had 4 inches hard, when word got out, everyone was talking all kinds of shit about him..

    p.s.

    I graduated in 95 too, and that was a long time ago, I am sure nobody remembers/cares about that anymore:)

    DJG
     
  8. PowayWolfman

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    damn man that sucks about the guy with 4 inches... but i didn't really start getting bigger until AFTER high school... and yeah.. im sure all the others forgot about it.. but the 46 are my actual friends.. we have remained a tight group all these years.. but GOD are we immature! XD

    WHOO HOOO!! GO CLASS OF 95!
     
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    Think that's bad? Check this out:

    I just got back from vacation a couple of days ago. Many of you here know that I am currently dating a girl in a completely open relationship (though her bf doesn't know that, even though they are on the verge of breaking up..shhh:wink:). Well since I'm on school break at PSU, we haven't seen each other since before the holidays (she lives over 9 hrs away from my home). She had asked how big I was before we had done anything, and I told her about the size of a Gilette can. She did not believe me, and I told her "fine, suit yourself".

    Me being the dumbass I am took a picture on my phone next to a Gilette can for future usage. A few days ago, she asked for a pic of my dick since she likes it so much. Luckily I had the shaving cream picture still on the phone, and sent it to her. I proceeded to delete the picture, knowing I'd never need it again, and knowing one of my friends would be a dick and go through my pics.

    The second to last day of the trip, I lost my phone and I had no idea where I put it. One of my friends apparently found it and gave it back to me. I thought nothing of it, until I got back to the house. One of my friends called me "photo *insert my name here*". I was confused as all hell about that, and went through my phone:

    I FORGOT TO DELETE THE FUCKING PICTURE MESSAGE

    All of my friends saw the Gilette picture, and have been calling me as such since they found it.

    Any time I defend myself, they say I'm being awkward. To which I reply "you all wish you had a dick the size of a Gilette can" which with college age guys doesn't go over too well.

    Basically everyone of my friends knows I'm huge now, and know I take pictures with shaving cream cans. I'm never gonna hear the end of this...

    Fuck.:mad:
     
  10. Howard10011

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    1. There are far worse reputations to have than being known for an endowment. Get over it. Most guys would welcome your "problem."

    2. Whether consciously or unconsciously, you wanted people to see these images or you wouldn't have sent them out. We live in the Information Age. (And it sounds like you and your friends live in the Too-Much-Information Age.) Nothing is private anymore. If you don't want something known about yourself, don't send it, post it or e-mail it. How hard is that?
     
  11. HUNGHUGE11X7

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    Like it or not a guy with a big dick will always be known as such among friends if the friends know his size. I have lived with this since since childhood. It really got bad after my first gf blabbed to all her friends. Then it bothered the hell out of me now I could care less.
    It's a part of me I cannot change nor would I want to.
    Would you rather be known as having a little dick ? No , I think not.
    So just hold your head proud and don't even think about your size.
    God knows if I had a complex about friends knowing my size and being around them I would never hang with my friends.
    Laugh with them and they shut up quickly it's only when they know it bothers you they keep egging the issue on.


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    Well, there's immodesty that you can and should be forgiven for with time, right? One of my graduate friends from high school only knows that I'm hung because at a party now two years ago, for this flirtatious girl, I whipped out my dick and spun it like a helicopter. Even MORE innocently on a different occasion, another girl came into my house (which my roommates staged as an open-door policy at the time) and saw me walk out of the shower with a towel around my waist. She caught a glimpse of it soft and then told her friends.

    Of course it wouldn't bother me so much if I was sexually interested, or even flirtatiously comfortable, with my crew of friends at the time. I'm not though; I just don't see them that way, whereas in the past I had a crew that the dynamics of being sexually "forward" were just there. And now, said grad school chum gets a few beers in him and he tells complete strangers, "This is Dee, and he's got a HUGE dick." His girlfriend chimes in, "Uh-huh! My friends have seen it."

    At first, it's like, "oh yeah!" :tongue:
    Nowadays, it's more like, "shutupshutupSHUTUP!" :mad:

    Again... if I wanna bang 'em... fine. Just don't blurt it. And even after I've said it a couple of times, he hasn't stopped, so as a result, I hang out with him less.
     
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    It seems to me that when you sent her the picture, you are the one who started this all over again and will just have to make the most of it.
     
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    I agree.
    We all like to manipulate our own private pleasures!

    It sounds like you like the attention....and good for you, I know I would give it a lot of attention, the pics are hot!
     
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    Mate, go with it. There are worse things in the world to be known for than having a big dick!

    Chris
     
  17. SomeGuyOverThere

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    If you are uncomfortable with it (which you seem to be) let it be known, tell them to back off a bit and let it be.

    If they don't take the hint then make sure they know that you are being serious, and if they still can't keep their mouths shut... well... find new people to hang out with or don't trust them as far as you can throw them.
     
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    You need to come up with a way to de-sensitize yourself about this topic. Your going to get taunted by your friends now, and I know that it may be hard, but i'm sure that you can work it out. You've got to show your friends that it isn't /that/ big of a deal. You should really count your blessings that you even have 40+ friends from high school still. (even if they still act like they are in HS) I've drifted away/grown apart from most my High School friends.

    Good luck with the reunion!

    Mt. Carmel Class of '95.
     
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    hey bud,nothing to be ashamed of.you look very average in length and above average girth. so enjoy.
     
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    In your group of friends there may be a guy who is even bigger than you. You could "inadvertantly" divert attention to him, if you wanted. Who knows, he may even enjoy the attention.
     
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