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My dick makes around 1/3 or maybe 40% of the girls I am with bleed, and I am 7.5" around at the base. You must be doing very young, new to sex girls who aren't very lubricated? It's all good just either lick them more or use some KY.
 

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It can happen, I rip my wife from time to time, one girl I caused to get stitches, felt bad about it
 

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Then again she had to go to phy therapy since hers was small to stretch it, I was the third guy shed been with
 

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Options:
1. period theory (highly likely)
2. she's just not enjoying it and you're not making her wet enough...the friction would hurt and probably make her bleed (quite likely)
3. they may have some kind of nasty unhealthy business going on down there...women are not supposed to bleed during sex. No matter how small we are, our vaginas are meant to expand.
4. heard of lube?
5. heard of foreplay?
6. if 4 and 5 don't work...the answer is mostly either 1 or 2.
 

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some things you can do is find out what positions you cause it in, and remove them from your toolbox, or modify them by changing depth and angle( an easy way is to put one hand on your junk so you dont go in too far) another is to make sure she is ready with foreplay which causes the uterus to retract or "tent" as its called where the broad ligaments pull back to allow for intercourse, this also makes her lube herself and relax her muscles to prevent ripping

or like above said, its possible for period. unless your with them daily and you do it 4 weeks of 4 weeks, its one of those things that will always be a variable whether shes either lining her inside walls for the egg, or flushing it out
 
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Been with my wife for 15yrs and she still tears and bleeds sometimes. We use a lot of lube and a lot of foreplay just still rips sometimes. I'm 9x6.5 and she says it always hurts for the first ten min then she opens up and can take me, but still bleeds the odd time.
 

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Been with my wife for 15yrs and she still tears and bleeds sometimes. We use a lot of lube and a lot of foreplay just still rips sometimes. I'm 9x6.5 and she says it always hurts for the first ten min then she opens up and can take me, but still bleeds the odd time.


yea i do this too, get carried away, or wrong angle and rip.

nice pics btw
 

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Been with my wife for 15yrs and she still tears and bleeds sometimes. We use a lot of lube and a lot of foreplay just still rips sometimes. I'm 9x6.5 and she says it always hurts for the first ten min then she opens up and can take me, but still bleeds the odd time.

^ this

I've been experiencing this for 13.5 years with my husband who is 6.5 in girth also. All this other crap about periods and whatnot is just bullshittery. I went the last 6+ years without a period and still bled from the area between the vagina and anus from not being able to accommodate him. Yes I'm small down there. I've always known it. My doctors know it and confirm it. I was unable to pass a baby through my vagina and needed a c-section.

Most of these answers are convoluted and make no sense what so ever from the perspective of a tight woman that has done everything and tried everything and sometimes one thrust done improperly can make it tear. It tears on the OUTSIDE not the inside where the cervix is located or where blood from a period would come out.

Unless you've been there on the receiving end of a hairline tear or been the one who accidentally caused it and feels like shit- you truly can't understand the limitations SOME vaginas have and will always have regardless of frequency of sex, masturbation habits or babies or whatever.

Some of ya'll need to do some studying on the fourchette of the vagina and know what is capable of being torn and what you can do to prevent it (or atleast make the chances of it happening minimal).

I'm not a dumbass who doesn't know how her body works. I have a husband who tries his damnedest not to hurt me because it makes sex from that point difficult for us both. I've tried every lube under the sun. We've tried stretching techniques, pretty much I could write a book on it and I can still tear.

I can tear wiping my vag after pissing after sex. The toilet paper can pull on the already swollen and compromised tissue and give it a paper cut like rip. Hurts like a son of a bitch- especially when pissed on. But it heals within 24-48 hours and the more you've torn, the more likely you are to tear in the same spot because you get a little knot of scar tissue that forms and scar tissue is not pliable and is more prone to tearing again.

So welcome to my world!
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You are a lousy fuck, if you are pounding a pussy -- and for those who are pounding ass (male or female), you, too, are a lousy fuck.

You need to return to 'fucking 101' class and review your notes. I am sure they had a lab, and you had to pass lecture and lab to get at least a "C."

By-the-way, as one poster mentioned, lub, lub, lub. My preferences are Wet and Astroglide, over KY gel: they seem to be more moist, and all the men I have spoken to...love either of them: they do not dry up as fast, either. Then, again, these are my choices. I have heard of people using oil, spit, Crisco, and other things.

Never, never fuck a woman dry -- even if she wants it. Of course, some women lubricate more, moisture, but to be safe: use a little -- not much -- if she is dripping wet -- lubrication.

As you become older, wiser, and more experienced in the fucking department -- get a hold of some older women, who are more experienced, and let them guide you: listen to them, learn from them, and by the time you are 40, your significant other or wife would love you forever. Remember, experience is the best teacher.

Good luck, Episcopalian.
 

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. It tears on the OUTSIDE not the inside where the cervix is located or where blood from a period would come out.

Thanks for sharing this MR, I actually had no idea that it was the outside that tore...I thought that guys were referring to internal bleeding. So, I apologise for my ignorance in the matter...it was also a misunderstanding on my part too.
 

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Lousy Fuck? Read my post above yours. Same goes for the other people who claim he is a lousy fuck. I have this with my husband who happens to be a phenomenal lover. The problem isn't with him necessarily, it could be entirely her genital build. Scroll up and educate yourself.
 

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^ this

I've been experiencing this for 13.5 years with my husband who is 6.5 in girth also. All this other crap about periods and whatnot is just bullshittery. I went the last 6+ years without a period and still bled from the area between the vagina and anus from not being able to accommodate him. Yes I'm small down there. I've always known it. My doctors know it and confirm it. I was unable to pass a baby through my vagina and needed a c-section.

Most of these answers are convoluted and make no sense what so ever from the perspective of a tight woman that has done everything and tried everything and sometimes one thrust done improperly can make it tear. It tears on the OUTSIDE not the inside where the cervix is located or where blood from a period would come out.

Unless you've been there on the receiving end of a hairline tear or been the one who accidentally caused it and feels like shit- you truly can't understand the limitations SOME vaginas have and will always have regardless of frequency of sex, masturbation habits or babies or whatever.

Some of ya'll need to do some studying on the fourchette of the vagina and know what is capable of being torn and what you can do to prevent it (or atleast make the chances of it happening minimal).

I'm not a dumbass who doesn't know how her body works. I have a husband who tries his damnedest not to hurt me because it makes sex from that point difficult for us both. I've tried every lube under the sun. We've tried stretching techniques, pretty much I could write a book on it and I can still tear.

I can tear wiping my vag after pissing after sex. The toilet paper can pull on the already swollen and compromised tissue and give it a paper cut like rip. Hurts like a son of a bitch- especially when pissed on. But it heals within 24-48 hours and the more you've torn, the more likely you are to tear in the same spot because you get a little knot of scar tissue that forms and scar tissue is not pliable and is more prone to tearing again.

So welcome to my world!
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^this, is entirely possible, as she just stated. smallest girl down there i slept with was 5'10", ripped every time no matter what( this was the stitches one)
 

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Sometimes when i have sex with women i stretch them out so much i make them bleed - i always feel bad eventho they said "NO NO NO NO its ok!"

They said they do not feel it but hell, anything that caused blood...internally...has to hurt lol

there are members here with a 6 fucking cm of diameter!!! if you made her bleed what the fuck are those going to do to their poor partners??? Split them in half maybe?? (btw what's your width and girth??)
 

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I'm only 7.0" L x 5.5" girth, nowhere near the really large girth of some of the guys mentioned in this thread that are 6.5" girth, but my GF has also gotten small hairline tears outside of her vaginal opening (where bottom of labia majora meet) right between her vagina and anus.

1) She is very wet (one of the wettest girls I've had) and I get her fully aroused with oral/foreplay, so that is not the issue.
2) She has an average to larger than avg size vagina, so that is not the issue. I've gotten 4 fingers & inside with the help of lube, and there has been no tearing.
3) Neither is lack of lube, as we've tried good amounts of that as well.
4) And neither is being rough - as it can happen sometimes when not being rough.

The tears are very small, almost like a papercut that just cuts the top layer of the skin. It hurts her like hell though, and we have to stop sometimes.

Do a search on vaginal tears, and you'll see it's an issue for plenty of women of all ages, sizes, shapes, etc. - and quite often even after medical advice and care it still happens. As Mademoiselle Rouge mentioned, it can happen to some women just from everyday activities like wiping. Some women are just more prone to it.
 

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^this, is entirely possible, as she just stated. smallest girl down there i slept with was 5'10", ripped every time no matter what( this was the stitches one)

I find that sometimes the smallest women in stature can deliver the largest babies because their pelvis can be wider than that of a taller woman. I have a small skeletal build under the curvier body I have now but it hasn't changed one bit in the vaginal area.

I recall many times being torn by an Ob/Gyn with an average sized speculum for an exam. Or when they put two fingers in to feel the uterus from the inside and outside and when I was in labor for 33 hours the nurses were constantly wanting to see how far I was dilated by checking my cervical status by inserting two fingers and they'd tear me every time. Nothing in that area was going to be stretched any larger even with the hormones of labor.

It's a real curse to be built the way I am and paired with a girther guy. It takes so much communication (verbal and non-verbal) to ensure entry of the penis is done in such a way to minimize the tearing possibility. I've been on estrogen for almost 16 years to help with the genito-urinary side effects of having a smaller vagina and urethra. You can venture to say my anus is also smaller and not able to handle the size of a penis any larger than average without tearing also.

Pussies like mine were put on this planet to make average (and slightly below average cocks) feel like King of the World when they enter me. What I would do to be able to unscrew my husbands larger cock and put on an attachment that is far better for my genital size.

It sucks to be my vagina. It takes a beating sometimes. I take a licking and keep on ticking because everything else I get that feels so lovely is worth the pain of entry to enjoy. It's the price my husband and I both pay to get to enjoy the splendid pleasure of intercourse. While I can go on and on for pages about the downsides, everything about him makes it all worth it. He is a wonderful lover. One painful thrust causes him to recalibrate everything he is doing to ensure he doesn't do it again. He feels terrible for tearing me and offers to make an icepack to help the swelling go down.

A man can tear a woman and not be bragadocious when he tells about it. He can feel very bad because it negates her positive sexual experience until the pain subsides. I recommend using a cream like Vagisil on the outside (very little) before sex and have her rub her clit vigorously upon entry to help those muscles relax and the Vagisil has a numbing agent that will help her not flinch and tighten up even more from the pain. It might make you a tad numb at first but it will all be great from there.

She can reapply the Vagisil post intercourse to help with the burning sensation as well if she happens to tear. I hope this helps! Oh and wetness has nothing to do with it. Sometimes being too wet causes him to push in too fast and you tear from the sheer quickness of penetration. I found that I tear the least when I'm not as wet. Silicone based lubes can be a disaster for this reason.

Astroglide makes a gel (a kind like KY jelly in a stand up tube) that works WONDERS for not making it too slick.
 

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thanks for the advice, but that one left me long ago. the one im with now i married, she has ripping, but not to the point of stitches. and i usually use astroglide, stuff works wondders
 

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I offer this advice to any fellas or ladies in the same situation. There are far more of them out there than we realize. They contact me privately and it's hard to answer all of their questions and referring them to threads like this one might be the answers to help their situation improve.

As for tearing at all, I've never torn to the point of needing stitches but these are the techniques I've found to help with the annoying minimal tearing I've known all too well throughout the years.

It's not an issue at all with an average to smaller than average guy. I can go buck wild in all positions with him no problem. I never even bled when I lost my virginity or when I went celibate for a year or two at a time. But when I met my husband (the girthiest of them all) this is what I've had to deal with! And we have a prolific and frequent sex life to the point where no matter how bad it might hurt sometimes I can't get enough of the good parts of it to let it stop me!
 

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Sometimes when i have sex with women i stretch them out so much i make them bleed - i always feel bad eventho they said "NO NO NO NO its ok!"

They said they do not feel it but hell, anything that caused blood...internally...has to hurt lol

well i have the same problem and all i can say is...... don't put it all in then if you feel so bad about it lol missionary is the best position for them if you don't want to hurt them.... all i can say again is don't put it all in
 

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I don't know what to tell you, but none of this makes sense. You might consider a different, more compassionate, informed gynecologist .
The area you're talking about is the perineum, the area where the episiotomy is preformed. This can tear with any childbirth.
Episiotomy just insures more even tear, which is easier to repair. Usually one or 2 sutures. Why you had a c section, I don't know. It is the pelvis that we are concerned about when giving birth, and if baby's head can pass through that, then mom has a natural vaginal delivery. (excluding multiples) Not the vagina.
Bleeding that you discribe is not normal. I'd imagine you'd experience a lot of infections.
The fourchette is at the bottom of the vagina,the perineal area. It is also an area the some women have piercing done. It can be delicate,especially with a piercing.
You may have a fourchette fissure. Some times treated with hormonal creams or surgery. Try to find a vulvar specialist .
You could also contact the national vulvodynia association to see if they have any docs in your area.
You need to be in contact with a doctor who knows about these bleeding episodes so that if you did develop an infection, it could be treated before it goes to other areas of your body. All in all, this could happen to any woman. It is the nature of the female body, we do seem to have more medical problems.
In cases where the fourchette tears very easily, it is not the fault of the male, or his size. No guilt there. Anything could cause pain or bleeding, including tampons or vaginal exams. I would pursue this though.

^ this

I've been experiencing this for 13.5 years with my husband who is 6.5 in girth also. All this other crap about periods and whatnot is just bullshittery. I went the last 6+ years without a period and still bled from the area between the vagina and anus from not being able to accommodate him. Yes I'm small down there. I've always known it. My doctors know it and confirm it. I was unable to pass a baby through my vagina and needed a c-section.

Most of these answers are convoluted and make no sense what so ever from the perspective of a tight woman that has done everything and tried everything and sometimes one thrust done improperly can make it tear. It tears on the OUTSIDE not the inside where the cervix is located or where blood from a period would come out.

Unless you've been there on the receiving end of a hairline tear or been the one who accidentally caused it and feels like shit- you truly can't understand the limitations SOME vaginas have and will always have regardless of frequency of sex, masturbation habits or babies or whatever.

Some of ya'll need to do some studying on the fourchette of the vagina and know what is capable of being torn and what you can do to prevent it (or atleast make the chances of it happening minimal).

I'm not a dumbass who doesn't know how her body works. I have a husband who tries his damnedest not to hurt me because it makes sex from that point difficult for us both. I've tried every lube under the sun. We've tried stretching techniques, pretty much I could write a book on it and I can still tear.

I can tear wiping my vag after pissing after sex. The toilet paper can pull on the already swollen and compromised tissue and give it a paper cut like rip. Hurts like a son of a bitch- especially when pissed on. But it heals within 24-48 hours and the more you've torn, the more likely you are to tear in the same spot because you get a little knot of scar tissue that forms and scar tissue is not pliable and is more prone to tearing again.

So welcome to my world!
Any questions?