i messed up!! and need to fix it!

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"Not like you asked him to the prom." hahaha!! just wish he seen it like i intended it, not in a "oh lets date and get married" kinda way.

Sweetie- welcome to the world of men!!! Been there done that. You ask a guy to go to the movies and he takes it as a proposal. It sucks, the games you have to play with guys, to always act like you don't care.

Of course the choice is yours too, you can hold out for someone you dont have to play games with. I think you need to forget the guy and move on.
 

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Christians have been making people feel terrible about themselves for hundreds of years. Don't worry about the way you were brought up. It doesnt mean it's right. Your parents beliefs don't have to be your beliefs. I hope you find someone you can be more open and honest with. Anytime someone makes you feel bad for the way you really feel is not good for you.

Please do not stereotype all Christians in this way. The United Church of Christ (UCC) - successor to the greater Congregationalists, who are the descendants of the Pilgrims/Puritans, have an Open and Affirming policy for people of all walks of life including LGBT persons. The American Episcopal Church has gay Priests and Bishops. And there are other non-mainline Christian Churches that do use deny sexual identity as a litmus test for membership.

Additionally, many non-Christian and non-religious straight people have strong negative feelings on same-sex loving persons.

I am a Christian and very welcome in my Church home and family.

Peace.
 
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Maybe he missed the Friends part of fwb. If it was me I'd just take it back and say "well okay well I go to the movies with my friends I do fuck... my bad I'll just re-label you bwb, bootycall with benefits. Or if you are in favor of the movie, too late. The only movie we'll be watching is porno while we manfrolic" Sorry I'm a bitch lol, don't take my advice.
 

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you didn't do anything wrong. Your friend just has intimacy issues. Your email was appropriate. If he doesnt respond, its his loss, and seriously, why would you want to be with someone you have to walk on eggshells with. Even if its just a FWB type arraignment, it doesn't mean it can't be really hot and passionate. Find someone more your style.
 

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I totally know where you are coming from. I was fooling around with this guy from hs and I always wanted to become closer to him as a friend but I felt that he was not interested on that so I never made a move. Right now I would love to get a buddy to fool around and hang out as two buddies.. BTW where did you meet this guy?