I met a dude who is HIV + and he wants to hook up. Should I do it?

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So I've been talking to this dude on grindr and he is super nice but he just told me he is HIV +. He explained to me that his virus levels are undectable due to medication and stuff and if he blew me without a condom there would be no risk.He wants to meet me and talk but I don't know if I'd be down for unprotected (which he seems to want) What do you all think?
 

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So I've been talking to this dude on grindr and he is super nice but he just told me he is HIV +. He explained to me that his virus levels are undectable due to medication and stuff and if he blew me without a condom there would be no risk.He wants to meet me and talk but I don't know if I'd be down for unprotected (which he seems to want) What do you all think?

I would go ahead and at least meet him. He was honest enough to tell you. I sent you a private message.
 

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Think about what would you have done if he didnt tell you about his status. There are alot of guys who have been blown by HIV+ guys who never bothered teling them
 
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If you like him and he likes you? Of course, go ahead. Unprotected? Forget it!
 

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It really bothers me that people today still are uneducated about
HIV/AIDS. Like Inferno suggested, do your own research and you make your own judgment call. To all you out there that say, don't do it. How many dicks have you sucked without a condom, and you didn't even know the status of the guy? I'm pretty sure that number is really high.
We need to make decisions like this for ourselves. It's not up to anyone to make this decision for you.

You at least owe this guy a meeting/date. He must like you and trust you enough to have told you his status. Be adult and talk with him how you feel.

I have lived with HIV for over 20 years.... so please everyone educate yourselves.
 

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I am not sure a guy who is HIV+ at any level wanting unprotected sex can be called "super nice". Sorry. If you are really like him, do some research about his condition and medication. If the risk is extremely low, say 0.0001%, go ahead and do it carefully and 100% protected.
 

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