I might be crazy 4 saying this but....

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  1. Ocean1

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    I wanna stop jerking off. Lately thats all my mind has been on. 2 the point that i cant sleep. I'm not "horny" per say cuz I'm not getting hard. Its just my penis seems to literally tell me to jack off. So I go look at porn and cum. The orgasms arent even good. After words I just feel like I wasted my time.

    I'm a busy guy and it really distracts from my schedule. Is there anyway I can stop this. I'd much rather prefer to just jack off when I really feel horny.
     
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    It could be stress. If you can't stop yourself, maybe you should try a little harder so you at least get better orgasms.

    You could also try the rubber band trick wear you wear a rubber band and when you think about masterbating you snap yourself so you get a negative physical response to the thought.

    What's wrong with jackin off? If you're so busy that you don't have time to rub one out, you're too busy (back to my first point about stress release)
     
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    How many times a day are you jacking off exactly? I can't say for sure, I'm not a professional, but if it's inhibiting your life, you could possibly be addicted.
     
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    Jerking off helps prevent testicular cancer. What's the problem?
     
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    Why was this put in the "sex with a large penis" forum?????
     
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    I dont masturbate tha much at all. just once a day. But it bugs me.
     
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    I didnt know where to put it. sorry
     
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    Oh, I though...maybe...oh, never mind...
     
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    It sounds like an addiction to me - primarily because you keep doing it even though you aren't enjoying it and because it is interfering with other parts of your life. I think your best bet would be to see a psychologist if you can afford it. They'll be able to help you learn techniques to get it down to a more manageable and enjoyable frequency. If you can't afford a psychologist, try googling addiction, sex addiction, addiction treatments, and psychological theories of addiction.
     
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    Only once a day? Not sure why it's such a problem then . . .
     
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    The more you wank the more you want to wank, though everyone's got a point where that no longer becomes the case. How often are we talking here?

    *edit* Oh, one a day, I missed that post. Well, if you're only doing it once a day, when you're trying to get to sleep and you don't really want to do it anyway, does that mean you don't have any real urge to do it at all?
     
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    Ease some stress. Play sports, run, swim, drink water, make sure you eat enough and healthy. Talk to someone about your masturbation to get under control.
     
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    I used to get that a lot, sometimes i do go through phases of doing it just for the sake of it when i don't really feel the need.

    Its not a problem for me to give it a rest for several days or so if i wish, instead of jerking off, i'll just grope a bit, get aroused, go do some housework, treat the dick like a pet and its satisfied after a brief stroke. No need to come until you feel horny enough, thats when the orgasm is really worth it.
     
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    With it only being once a day it doesn't sound like it's an addiction. All the people I've heard of who are sex addicts don't have a problem jacking off somewhere in the area of 30-50 times in a weekend. Which I think we can all say is a bit much. Lol. Once a day is actually pretty normal. It sounds like your just a guy. We think of sex a lot, and we tend to do something about it. If your not enjoying it, now THAT sounds like you may have a problem. How a 15min moment with your favorite little person could cause a hinder to your life I'm not sure. Maybe try holding off until an appropriate time and have a longer session with yourself. Do some edging and work yourself up to a really intense orgasm. Do something different maybe.
     
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    whew...i'm at 28 times a week...so not a problem yet.
     
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    28 in a week is a long way from what I said. I said weekend. Two days bro. Lol.
     
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