I might have Hypersexuality

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Sometimes Naive? . . . Man you guys are too kind. Where's my support?

You were a bit too blunt for my taste, but I agree with you somewhat.

Trying to diagnose yourself when you have no training in the area is a bad idea.
 

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Sometimes Naive? . . . Man you guys are too kind. Where's my support?

You were a bit too blunt for my taste,

Blunt?
How about rude and nasty?

Trying to diagnose yourself when you have no training in the area is a bad idea.

Frequently those with training and credentials do a very poor job of diagnosis especially with psychological issues

My bad, I stand corrected. I still think you are normal, sexually; though sometimes naive.

I agree.
Nothing wrong with being naive. We all were once.

na·ive or na·ïve adj. Lacking worldly experience and understanding

Seems to me that asking questions is a good path to understanding.
Especially self understanding.
 

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Key words "clinically significant". I think that means it would interfere with normal daily interactions.

You go to a store for milk and you wind up in a back alley screwing someone. Then you go home, and you forgot to get the milk! You have an important job interview and you miss it because there was some hot guy at a bus stop you just HAD to have. Oh and people with hypersexuality don't care if the person is hot or fugly! I saw some British show where the wife had a head injury and developed hypersexuality. I'm pretty sure if you do things like that it's hypersexuality. If you just think damn that person is fine I wonder what they would be like in bed. That's pretty normal.
 

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I think I have this. Below is its description:

Hypersexuality is the desire to engage in human sexual behavior at a level high enough to be considered clinically significant.
The concept of hypersexuality replaces the older concepts of nymphomania. Nymphomania was believed to be a female psychological disorder characterized by an overactive libido and an obsession with sex. In males the disorder was called satyriasis.



I think I have this. I think about sex just about every spare second I have.


I think that to have hypersexuality you would have to be out there doing a lot of men indiscriminately though. You would have to be out there fucking a lot at the every moment and even during work and or school.

Rommette, I don't believe you have hypersexuality. I think that you have a high sex drive but with a heart. If you had hypersexuality--you would have the compulsions and the sex activity with as many partners. And you wouldn't care as long as you got more dick in there at every moment. You would also be like one of those women in the pornos that fucks 100 men in the video...only that compulsion would be every day.

I think a lot about sex but I am not out there fucking every man out there. That doesn't mean that I have satyriasis. If I had satyriasis, I would be out there fucking a lot of men in the wildest of places. At all times. I am not.

 

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And there's something wrong with that? No, from your comments elsewhere, you seem to be selective and wish for a stable relationship. If this was not the case, you would be f'en everything that came your way. .


agreed,

you're beautiful, you're safe and you're not hurting anybody.... do what makes you feel good. don't let any one, most of all yourself, talk you into feeling bad about wanting to feel good
 

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I should say that as long as you can lead an otherwise normal and full life without your "hyper sexuality" eating away at important aspects in your day to day you should be comfortable with your drives/desires... trying to fix something that isn't broken is a fruitless effort. embrace your sexuality and have at it.
 

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I think I have this. Below is its description:

Hypersexuality is the desire to engage in human sexual behavior at a level high enough to be considered clinically significant.
The concept of hypersexuality replaces the older concepts of nymphomania. Nymphomania was believed to be a female psychological disorder characterized by an overactive libido and an obsession with sex. In males the disorder was called satyriasis.



I think I have this. I think about sex just about every spare second I have.

So do I!

I find the less I'm having the more I think about it... which means I'm thinking about it all the bloody time at the moment!

Sounds like me...!

well, when i have sex often I think about having sex with that person again. I could fuck all day and be ok with it (if I wouldn't be sore)

This sounds like me when I have someone!

Aren't you like 20? :confused: I think that's normal for your 20's. :cool:

It's normal for your 30s and 40s too. :biggrin1:

I think that to have hypersexuality you would have to be out there doing a lot of men indiscriminately though. You would have to be out there fucking a lot at the every moment and even during work and or school.

Rommette, I don't believe you have hypersexuality. I think that you have a high sex drive but with a heart. If you had hypersexuality--you would have the compulsions and the sex activity with as many partners. And you wouldn't care as long as you got more dick in there at every moment. You would also be like one of those women in the pornos that fucks 100 men in the video...only that compulsion would be every day.

I think a lot about sex but I am not out there fucking every man out there. That doesn't mean that I have satyriasis. If I had satyriasis, I would be out there fucking a lot of men in the wildest of places. At all times. I am not.

I think this is true. I have a very high sex drive and it is terribly frustrating, but I'm not willing to risk physical harm (usually!) to have sex. I say "Usually" in the parentheses because, although I am not willing to risk winding up dead in a ditch with random strangers with no safety precautions to ensure that I DON'T wind up dead in a ditch, I have had experiences where I got started and wound up having sex with several men (once 4 in a day at a sex party) without condoms! :eek: And yes, I know that's stupid, and I'm very relieved that after more than a year since then I have not developed any symptoms of an STD. That's not something I usually do, by the way. And I declined going to later parties because of their unwillingness to use condoms (although sometimes I think of going back because I'm not having any sex right now - usually only get to have sex around twice a year! :eek:)

agreed,

you're beautiful, you're safe and you're not hurting anybody.... do what makes you feel good. don't let any one, most of all yourself, talk you into feeling bad about wanting to feel good

Words of wisdom!!! I hate the portrayal of women who like sex and demonstrate that enjoyment as sluts. Sluts are just people who have more sex than you do. :biggrin1: (I loved that quote so much I put it in my sig!) Basically, if you're not hurting anyone by doing so, I see absolutely nothing wrong with casual sex - I (ahem!) rather enjoy it, in fact! I think the stuff against casual sex is repressive. Life is too short to live a repressed life - we need to be able to ENJOY it whenever we can! Of course if you don't enjoy it you shouldn't do it, but if you do enjoy it and are not hurting anyone, I don't see the problem with that.