I need a boyfriend

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I think the title says it all. I need a boyfriend. Any ideas where I might go to meet young-ish people? For sake of reference, I'm 27 years old and live in the suburbs. It's generally inconvenient for me to go into the city every night to cruise the bars, so any other ideas people have would be much appreciated.
 

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you want sex, not a b/f. in order to get a b/f you need to mature beyond your current mental age. b/f's come without looking and without too much limitations
black, white, brown, yellow, tall, short, hung or not, age is also not a factor, but the state of mind is. in time they will grow old, you will not be interested anymore cause they will be too old for your taste. ever consider your own flaws? at your age you are still single. why? too old for a 19 y/o? too picky? (i.e. bitch) unreasonable expectations? 11"cock and body of adonis with movie star looks? what do you bring to the table to offer? trust fund? these are all superficial, look beyond that, and you will easily find a b/f, in fact, they will find you.
quite simple. b/f and I are together almost 15 years now and still happy. it just sort of happened one day when we were both not looking nor expecting anything. it really does just happens.
sorry if it sounds harsh, i am not trying to nit pick, nor attack, but am old enough and experienced enough to know what does really work
been in your shoes and glad i listened to good advice waaaay back when I was single and looking at 27 (p.s. 27 is gay death, you are at the last useful months of gay life) hit 30 and no one will look at you much less consider you as b/f material
 

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Hahahahaahaha! Ouch, Martin, that was harsh! Are you sure you're as happy as you say? I mean, your reply was quite negative. You sound like a bitter old man! Besides, you're patronising this poor chap because he's "too superficial" but then you say that "27 is gay death"? Isn't that superficial as well? Come on!
 
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the problem with looking for love in the burbs of Jersey, it is where the gays move after they have a BF and they settle down then they do not feel like going out anymore. That and people are more accepting now so there is no longer the pressure to have a bar or place of "our own"
This may sound odd, but dating sites, and even the apps can work you just have to be honest if you are looking for a relationship, friends or friends with benifits. and know some guys are not honest.
what you will find once you reach out to some guys in your area is that there is a place they go for drinks on a wednesday, or that a bunch of them bowl and go to the lanes a certain night (same for tennis or a place to watch football games)
the other thing to do is network a bit through hobbies and or social activities, you may not be interested in some people phisically or emotionally but they may know someone who is right for you.