Ill cut right to the chase. Over the last few years Ive been very unsatisfied sexually at home. I feel that weve exhausted all avenues in figuring out the issue and I think it simply comes down to a huge difference in sex drive. That said, I have begun to think I need a need a friend with benefits (FWB) on the side. It seems like all I want is occasional, safe fun with another adult who wants the same thing. Im not about to leave a marriage that is 90% great. But its that last 10% that is lacking big time. Where do I even begin? I signed up for a free account on AshleyMadison.com and have posted and responded to CraigsList casual encounters ads, but 95% of the women on there are 1) BBW (not into it) or 2) spammers. Socially, I dont know any attractive women that dont know both of us. Thoughts? Suggestions? Comments? Advice?