big_peter
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[breakups--- yuck!]
I had a particularly awful breakup once-- she hated me... for how I reacted to what She did... go figure...
I remember one thing that was useful in getting beyond it all... especially if you have those fond memories creeping back to tweak at you....
Allow yourself the fond memory, and reach back for a painful one to wash it down (carry them in sets- one good, one bad) ... after a while (if you're anywhere similar to where I was) the fond memories get questioned, too... and you're nearer being past it all.
be a gentleman to someone who deserves it. That's most people, not all people.
BTW- you deserve another hug...
I had a particularly awful breakup once-- she hated me... for how I reacted to what She did... go figure...
I remember one thing that was useful in getting beyond it all... especially if you have those fond memories creeping back to tweak at you....
Allow yourself the fond memory, and reach back for a painful one to wash it down (carry them in sets- one good, one bad) ... after a while (if you're anywhere similar to where I was) the fond memories get questioned, too... and you're nearer being past it all.
be a gentleman to someone who deserves it. That's most people, not all people.
BTW- you deserve another hug...