I dont know what to make of this guy and our conversations. I would love a second opinion. Are Y'all ready for a long story? Here goes. I work retail and this guy came into my store. I was being myself and greeting him and i noticed that he was extremely hot. So i decided to flirt a bit. well we talked for an hour and fifteen (off and on as i was working) and at one point he asks for my help in the dressing room. He proceeds to take his shirt off not once or twice but four times with me drooling there in the door. The only problem, i cant tell if he is gay or not (bad gaydar). After he leaves im on cloud nine. Two weeks roll by and he comes in again. We talk for 45 minutes this time, i decided to ask him out, see where he lands. He tells me he needs to study for a test but then promises to come back. He is a medicine major and has a lot on his plate. I dont see him for three weeks. he comes in tonight and we talk for 10 minutes. He asks where i was and i let him know (schedules didnt line up right) i ask what are his plans now that he is done with finals, he tells me he is going home for christmas break and im pulled away by a different customer. I was going to go ask him out again (he has no excuse this time so i felt more confident) and i see him almost running out the door. I have no clue how to understand what is going on. Am i completely reading this wrong or is it not my connection but something with him? At one time i remembered how nervous i was asking him out and wondered if it was vice versa. Any words of wisdom?