I need advice about a sexless marriage

[Not_Punny]

LOL, love your new signature, Dolf. "I see stupid people..." -- wasn't that from the movie "The Sixth Senseless"? :tongue:

 

[dolfette]

LOL, love your new signature, Dolf. "I see stupid people..." -- wasn't that from the movie "The Sixth Senseless"? :tongue:

best misquote ever :wink:

 

[helgaleena]

Cool, never heard of that. Would you happen to know how this works, considering it has a negligible calcium content?

Besides being full of excellent digestive enzymes when fresh, Kraut is very high in vitamin K, which aids in the assimilation of calcium, and folate, which is the B vitamin most necessary for formation of new tissues. Folate deficiency is linked to birth defects, and also masquerades as anemia (iron deficiency) leading to overdoses of iron supplements.

Simply the fact that its acidity is quite high helps render all essential minerals more digestible.

 

[eyescream]

It's great to hear you have no intention on cheating, you've got yourself something good and it's definitely not her fault that she's in the situation she's in right now. I agree with the others, masturbate! It'll all be worth it in the end when she's finally back to her old brand new self.

 

[mayberry]

Sorry for the bad news to all those who posted your encouraging words! But. we are divorcing. She says she doesn't want for both of us to go through this anymore. didn't help that my penis size started all these problems. "be careful what you ask for.... ..... you might get it!

 

[IntoxicatingToxin]

Oh dear! What happened?! Surely your divorce isn't going to help her health issues?

 

[JoeWide2]

Sorry for the bad news to all those who posted your encouraging words! But. we are divorcing. She says she doesn't want for both of us to go through this anymore. didn't help that my penis size started all these problems. "be careful what you ask for.... ..... you might get it!

Divorce Advice: Prior to getting legal things rolling, see a marriage counselor together. Even if you don't work everything out, and you do part company, you'll do so knowing what didn't work, and each of you will be healthier to move on. Plus, there's always the chance that you WILL work things out . . . best of luck.

 

[D_Rosalind Mussell]

I'm so sorry to hear this! I had hoped when I read the thread that the update would mean something positive. Have you gone to counseling or anything?

 

[helgaleena]

I do not think you need to blame yourself for a physical incompatibility with your spouse. You are as the gods made you and so is she. That your love could not surmount this in the end is no shame to either of you. It does not mean that your love was not worth having, either.

Pure physical incompatibility is documented as far back as the Kama Sutra, in an ancient era where arranged marriages were the norm. I think it was noble of you both to try to surmount the discontinuity between you with love and tolerance. But in the end, even in a relationship we must first care for ourselves, in order to care for one another.

Both of you are doing what you need to at this time in order to increase your well-being. Continue to wish for love, and best to you both in future.