Okay, before you all rush to tell me at the end of this post how I shouldn't have done what I've done - just spare it. I already feel terrible enough as it is. I just need some real guidance as to what to do. I used to speak to guy on another forum (on a completely different topic to this one) and we became friends. But because he was 5 years older than me, I thought that he'd want to speak to someone his own age. So anyway, I told him I was his age. We talked on MSN and we had a great friendship. I stopped talking to him about a year ago. I'd always suspected he was gay so I added him recently on another addy and we got talking. I gave him a fake picture and lied about who I was. Turns out he is gay and we've got talking and I can't believe how much we've got in common (since now we talk about relationships and things we didn't talk about before). He's hot, he's clever, he's funny and we've got so many of the same interests. Problem is that I think we're both falling for each other and what was originally going to be a bit of cyber fun has turned into so much more. I really care about him but I don't know if I can bring myself to tell him who I am, and not only that but I've lied to him about my age. (I'm 18 btw, he's 23). He's confided in me about his trust issues and I don't know if I can risk hurting him. What should I do? Keep going as I am then let eventually let him down gently or tell him the truth and hope for the best?