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Ok so I'm a 20 yr old guy and in the middle of my senior year of high school, my oldest childhood guy friend said he wanted to stop being friends. He said that we didn't like the same things anymore and I was heading nowhere and in a different direction than he was because I didn't really try hard in school. I kept asking where this came from and he said he didn't know but it would just be better that way. confused
It was horrible for a while as he became best friends with a guy that I hated (and coincidentally fooled around with when we were 13 and only the two of us know to this day) and they would ignore me and say things behind my back. Nevertheless, I ended up opening up to more people and became more popular and social around school and getting better grades than him (ironically).
He eventually apologized and said he was horrible and that he was no longer friends with the other guy. I said I'd try to forgive him but it would always be in the back of my mind. We started becoming genuine friends again a year later...then he started sneaking around with my pregnant friend. And told her not to tell me because he knew I'd be mad, but she always did and I confronted him and he pathetically asked for forgiveness, which I gave him again.
And now, he's fine and just sucks up to me all the time and refers to me as his best friend to everyone, and yet at this time when he's being the nicest he's ever been, I actually just don't want to be friends with him anymore. lol I'm over the drama, but I don't want to stoop to his level and do what he did and just cut him off out of nowhere. So what should I do?
It was horrible for a while as he became best friends with a guy that I hated (and coincidentally fooled around with when we were 13 and only the two of us know to this day) and they would ignore me and say things behind my back. Nevertheless, I ended up opening up to more people and became more popular and social around school and getting better grades than him (ironically).
He eventually apologized and said he was horrible and that he was no longer friends with the other guy. I said I'd try to forgive him but it would always be in the back of my mind. We started becoming genuine friends again a year later...then he started sneaking around with my pregnant friend. And told her not to tell me because he knew I'd be mad, but she always did and I confronted him and he pathetically asked for forgiveness, which I gave him again.
And now, he's fine and just sucks up to me all the time and refers to me as his best friend to everyone, and yet at this time when he's being the nicest he's ever been, I actually just don't want to be friends with him anymore. lol I'm over the drama, but I don't want to stoop to his level and do what he did and just cut him off out of nowhere. So what should I do?