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Okay here is the situation, and I just need some general advice.
I have an employee (I know its already starting off bad) and he came to work for me at the beginning of November, however I have known him for quite some time (about a year). He actually worked for a very good friend of mine and as such we have became friends. We would flirt and joke around and whatever, nothing serious just playing around.
He has a boyfriend and they seem very happy together. We actually all go to the same church together now so we have all three gotten very close, but the more I get to know my employee the more sparks fly. We have a very very strong connection. It's not a sexual connection whatsoever, please let me make that very clear, it's an emotional connection.
When I think of him, I don't think of fucking him, I think of holding him, and taking him on romantic trips, etc. but the moral of my whole post is this. Things continue to heat up and things continue to progress and things in my opinion are kind of stepping over the line. Example is this, his texts and e-mails started ending with "muah", then progressed to "xo", then now "love ya's" He has little pet names that have crept up where he will call me in the morning and say like "Hey boo, how's your morning? You have a 9 O'clock or whatever" and at first I just brushed it off that he is just joking around and it's all just fun and games between us but now I am just feeling really conflicted
On one hand, I say, geez I have this amazing connection with this guy, and I can't get him out of my head and all I want to do is make him happy, and treat him like a king, but then the logical side says, wait a minute, he's your employee and regardless of what you feel you need to draw a line and not let this go on. I don't care about the liability, I could care less about money.. you get some, you lose some, not a big deal. I just think that I need to draw a line in the sand, and separate work from personal.
any insight on this?? ( Sorry such a long post )
I have an employee (I know its already starting off bad) and he came to work for me at the beginning of November, however I have known him for quite some time (about a year). He actually worked for a very good friend of mine and as such we have became friends. We would flirt and joke around and whatever, nothing serious just playing around.
He has a boyfriend and they seem very happy together. We actually all go to the same church together now so we have all three gotten very close, but the more I get to know my employee the more sparks fly. We have a very very strong connection. It's not a sexual connection whatsoever, please let me make that very clear, it's an emotional connection.
When I think of him, I don't think of fucking him, I think of holding him, and taking him on romantic trips, etc. but the moral of my whole post is this. Things continue to heat up and things continue to progress and things in my opinion are kind of stepping over the line. Example is this, his texts and e-mails started ending with "muah", then progressed to "xo", then now "love ya's" He has little pet names that have crept up where he will call me in the morning and say like "Hey boo, how's your morning? You have a 9 O'clock or whatever" and at first I just brushed it off that he is just joking around and it's all just fun and games between us but now I am just feeling really conflicted
On one hand, I say, geez I have this amazing connection with this guy, and I can't get him out of my head and all I want to do is make him happy, and treat him like a king, but then the logical side says, wait a minute, he's your employee and regardless of what you feel you need to draw a line and not let this go on. I don't care about the liability, I could care less about money.. you get some, you lose some, not a big deal. I just think that I need to draw a line in the sand, and separate work from personal.
any insight on this?? ( Sorry such a long post )