I need help on this

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There's this guy who really likes me. He's good looking, nice body, nice complexion. Down side is he's about 5'3''. I can live with the height but my problem is, he really wants to sleep with me. I haven't been with a man for a very long time. Im just nervous that I'm gonna screw up (no pun intended). I've only been with 2 men before. Most of those I've slept with we're women. How do I make this happen? How can I make this special?
 

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well am i correct in assuming that you want to have sex with him now as well? or would you prefer to wait a little? if my assumption is correct, i have to reiterate what others have said before me. just think that at least you gave some experience with men, i mean your not starting from scratch. my advice is just dont worry so much and go with the flow :)
 

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If he really likes you, be patient. You may become good friends and then more than just good friends. When you have reached that point you may indeed be receptive to the signs from him and the signs which you are giving him. I mean: there comes a time when persons who have bonded in deep friendship feel the need to express that in sex. Ideally, there ought not to be the least hint that one of you is the seducer, you both want it. When the sex happens it will then come naturally and seem right. Be sure to take time in the afterglow of that sex to tell each other how you came to this wonderful new status which you will not describe as being mere fuck buddies, but two persons bound in the bond of love. Such sex is not only thrilling but transforming. I've been there.