i need help

Discussion in 'Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy' started by morano, Dec 14, 2008.

  1. morano

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    my friend likes me n i kinda like her, but not really. She wants a relationship, but i suck at em, do yu guys think i shuld break it off now, or wait to see if me feelins grow?
     
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    If you don't really like her then you need to end it before her feelings get stronger and you end up hurting her
     
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    Tell her that you suck at relationships.
     
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    Or, just take a chance.

    You haven't explained exactly WHY you suck at them. If it's a commitment issue, then, take charge and be faithful. If you suck because you forget birthdays, get a calander.

    I'd go for it :)
     
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    As anyone will tell you life is full of challenges. Go for it!!!! You never know the results until you try it.
     
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    If you don't tend a garden, mostly weeds grow.
     
  7. morano

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    i dunno exactly wat yu mean
     
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    You make relationships sound like a trip to the dentist....relax....have fun...be yourself....be open...share your thoughts....do one nice thing for her everyday (and no sex doesn't count)....in life it is never the things you tried and that didn't work that you regret....it is the times you "could have" but never tried....loet things grow between you....over time you will both find your way together or not and look back and be thankful that you shared the special times together....
     
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    Just fuck off.
     
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