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Hi people. Am having a problem. I have a 7 inch dick and i see porn movies and it makes me feel like am just average! I want at least an 8 inch! DO you know of websites who have pictures of women measuring dicks? Cause i wanna know how big do they have it! I don't know what to do! I see my penis average and i dont see it BIG! My GF tells me that am HUGE! But i DONT BELIEVE HER! Also am jealous of my GF ex cause she took her virginity and i didn't! and she took mine! I know its stupid but that really makes me feel bad! She tells me that am MORE special and that she DOESN'T care of who was first that she left him for ME! Please people cheer me up! I don't know what to do! I want a bigger penis so i can do the things that porn stars do! Move GOOD!
 

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At 7 inches your dick IS above average! Comparing your dick to those of porn stars is silly as the reason many are picked is because they have huge dicks. Be happy with what you have got, many men would love to have a dick as big as yours :)
 

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7" is big. (It will look bigger to you when you have more confidence. One way to get a better idea of how it looks to other people is to find a large mirror where you can stand side on and see yourself full-length, in every sense.)

If you drew a diagram of people with lines connecting people who ever had sex and arrows showing who took whose virginity it would be an amazing tangle of lines with very few arrows, and all possible combinations. If you're still with your first partner then a long and happy sex life awaits you, perhaps with her, perhaps with others, who knows? So who was whose first doesn't matter a jot.

And does anyone think porn stars are actually good at sex? They have to be able to perform in front of a camera, under brights lights with lots of people watching, in uncomfortable positions (so that YOU can see stuff happening) and they have to be able to stop and start to order, and take orders about what to do next. That does NOT make for a good time for them or their partners, who are almost certainly faking it, or at least overacting what they really feel. Remember, they are doing a job, for money, and their job is to turn YOU on, not themselves and not their partners.
 
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Thanx snozzle. That was an honest answer. I just thought since they were both virgins it was more special than when she did it with me. That's all! And for my size.. well.. idkk how to explain.. you are a man u know how i might feel.
 

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Hi people. Am having a problem. I have a 7 inch dick and i see porn movies and it makes me feel like am just average! I want at least an 8 inch! DO you know of websites who have pictures of women measuring dicks? Cause i wanna know how big do they have it! I don't know what to do! I see my penis average and i dont see it BIG! My GF tells me that am HUGE! But i DONT BELIEVE HER! Also am jealous of my GF ex cause she took her virginity and i didn't! and she took mine! I know its stupid but that really makes me feel bad! She tells me that am MORE special and that she DOESN'T care of who was first that she left him for ME! Please people cheer me up! I don't know what to do! I want a bigger penis so i can do the things that porn stars do! Move GOOD!

I hate to appear to be insensitive to a posters issues. However, is this just asinine rambling or what?
 

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You are watching too much porn.
Seeing a variation of peni between 7" and 9" has scewed your view on average.
And porn is fantasy. At 10 year old - I already knew that a cape and a T-shirt with an S, didn t make me fly like Superman.
So be real(istic), Realman.
 

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Yea u should not feel small, i guess if ur partner likes what u have is more than enough, 7 inch is great, i wish i had that lenght
 

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Most people aren't happy with their size whether its 5" or 10".

I was watching the TV show Nothing But The Truth last night and this guy got asked the question "Are you happy with the size of your penis?". He had taken a lie detector and had to give the correct answer based on that.

He bullshitted a bit then said "Yes". The lie detector said he was lying. Even though he thought he was happy (or wanted it to be true since he was on TV and all his family were there), his body 'told the truth' or so they say on the show.

Anyways, a lot of porn is closeups with skewed perspectives. There's a few pics on here in the measured pornstars thread. One guy Chris Strokes was measured at 6.75".

Billy Glide is about 7" long (but pretty thick). Others are between 7-8 mainly.

Don't worry about porn. Women have the same hangups about breast size and their attractiveness/beauty so the insecurities generally cancel each other out. The trick is not to let a stupid thing like pornography spoil a relationship.

I mean it's pretty ridiculous to break up with someone (or force them to breakup with you) because of a part of someone's anatomy onscreen who you will never meet and who will never fuck your girlfriend and who she probably doesn't even want to fuck.

Girls are attracted more to emotional or subjective things rather than physical things like men are.

I like tits but most women don't. :confused:
 

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Porn is not real life sex, it's cartoon sex. You can't judge your sex life by porn standards unless you enjoy feeling inferior. And losing virginity isn't usually specially pleasant for the one losing it. Usually it's awkward and even uncomfortable. Sex gets better with practice, and the first is often not the one that does the best.

Your girl has you and thinks you are an improvement. Believe her because 1) you should trust the one you love 2) it's almost certain to be completely true!

Yes, your penis is above average and classified as large.
 

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you need to MAN Up - RealMan_1 - Boo FN Hoo that you didnt take(as you put it) her verginity but she took yours.

She's with you now and not that other cock that took your girls virginity!

Dont live the past - create your own future!

Say to yourself... I've got a great cock no matter what the size is. This woman is with me and my awesome cock... show her you know how to use it!

Be a man behind that cock mr. RealMan_1

My cocks 6.5 and i own that motherfucker, and when i've giving it to a woman she knows im giving it my all no matter who she's been with!

Bless!
 

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7" is more then adequate. I'm also 7", and while I of course wish it were a little bigger, at least be glad it isn't smaller!

Aside from that, I don't understand a word of what you wrote.
 

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I used to think I was small when I was young and watching porn. Then I grew up, saw other guys and realized that I'm not small.

Think of it this way - is every guy you see on television just 'average' looking? No. Most are filled with "beautiful people". They are not a representation of what reality is. My office employs about a hundred people, mostly guys. But of the 15 or so women there, I wouldn't sleep with a single one of them - none of them are "lookers". A few guys are really good looking, but we're still talking about 5 out of 85 people.

And about your other comment, about your GF saying you're huge and not believing her... The girl I lost my virginity to, I told her that I was small (obviously "before"). The night we did it, when she saw it for the first time, she looked down and said, "are you fucking kidding me. Um babe, you ain't small". It was nice to hear, but still didn't believe her. After three GF's kept saying the same thing, I began believing them.

TV people are a representation of the best looking. Porn actors are a representation of 'above' average'. Don't measure yourself against either to determine what's truly average.
 

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It does seems like rambling. Calm down and think, at 7" you are already above average. Those people you see in porn are on the extreme end of the spectrum, there are only a handful of these people in the world.
 

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Hi people. Am having a problem. I have a 7 inch dick and i see porn movies and it makes me feel like am just average! I want at least an 8 inch! DO you know of websites who have pictures of women measuring dicks? Cause i wanna know how big do they have it! I don't know what to do! I see my penis average and i dont see it BIG! My GF tells me that am HUGE! But i DONT BELIEVE HER! Also am jealous of my GF ex cause she took her virginity and i didn't! and she took mine! I know its stupid but that really makes me feel bad! She tells me that am MORE special and that she DOESN'T care of who was first that she left him for ME! Please people cheer me up! I don't know what to do! I want a bigger penis so i can do the things that porn stars do! Move GOOD!
Don't be an asshole whining about this shit.
A lot of people expressed my sentiments. I don't look like Brad Pitt, but i got over it...