Me and my girl have been together on and off for 3 years. In the beginning we had sex pretty much everyday for the first year and that slowly went away. Fast foward to now and we don't have sex unless I really go after it. Yesterday I told her that I wanted her and she told me she was really horny too but we didn't have sex. I ask her why she didn't want to and she said she wanted it to happen naturally. Now my question is if she doesn't want me to push for it and she hardly ever goes after me how does she expect it to happen naturally? I don't get what she wants and she couldn't even explain it to me. Can anyone explain this to me? P.S When we do have sex it is always AMAZING and she always cums multiple times so its not me.