I just read the linked thread -- Spoiled Princess said to threaten calling Child Protection Services on the other child. Did you do this? Did you ever consider calling Child Protection Services at all?
The part that I don't understand is the younger sister. If what you're saying is true, then there's a victim that is even WORSE off -- the younger sister. How could your finance just abandon her little sister?
This is all very fishy to me. I've heard many a girl tell horror stories about their homelives to get men to "save" them. ANd it never turns out to be that bad.
The part that sticks for me is the totally uncaring attitude either one of you have for a younger child.
Please explain this to me.
I can almost guarantee you that the Department of Social Services is already on it, first because of one of the kids ending up in juvenile hall, second from any statements made by the her regarding her younger sister.
On the one hand, there are horrible parents out there, on the other there are kids who don't want to follow parental rules and will lie.
If there is any doubt about DSS involvement, then,yes, contact them.