I NEED SOLUTION AND ADVICE (urgent)

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  1. overgrown21

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    you know what, i was in a situation once a girl that is doing phd at my uni saw my dick fully hard down my left side of trousers at the city mall, everytime i walk pass her now she gets blushed and stares at me... what do u think ? what should i do or what is she thinking ?

    what to do? shall i remind her that i remember her from when i was in an uncomfortable situation and invite for a cafe or something ? PS what if my dick get hard again during our cafe conversation and lands as a huge pipe down my left side of trousers ? (i can make it intentionally in my tighter kind of white jeans)
     
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    You have a formidable 'pole.' Consider her attention an compliment. When the time is right strike up a conversation with her and see where it goes.
     
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    she is waiting for a fuck.. it's not good to make a miss wait too long unless you want to look like a rude guy to her eyes...
     
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    I guess this all depends on your own character how direct you want to play it, and on her character how she might react. If this is a totally random woman then I dont think you can read much into someone being surprised and mildly embarrased except that they arent used to seeing that sort of thing. (on which point, yes, very nice.) So I wouldnt think youd want to go on too much about your dick, just maybe mention the incident with apologies if it is necessary to speak about the occasion at all.


    er, it wouldnt be an accident if you are doing it on purpose, would it? I would suggest the normal thing to do would be to act normally, which normally does not mean going round with a huge bulge. Normally, it means tucking up whatever way works for you so it is as little obvious as possible. As the sort of woman who has seen this once by accident and is embarassed she might also be impressed, but if you keep on waving it about every time she sees you, she might just write you off as a pervert.

    I am puzzled why this is urgent? you see her regularly?

    I think that if you are in any kind of situation where you see someone repeatedly, through working in the same place or whatever, then it is natural to work up a bit of conversation.

    Having advised caution, I have struck up a conversation and more with a guy based on mutually expanding bulges in our jeans, but you really do need to be clear you arent going too far before uping the ante from accidental to deliberate exposure.
     
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    i dont see her regularly, but i can ask my lecturer which phd she is exactly doing so i knew where i can find her, i see her once a month maybe, + she saw my dick once in the mall.
     
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    If you see her in an environment where its natural and frequent to see her, start with a simple hello. Its obvious she remembers who you are (perhaps because of this "uncomfortable situation") so chatting shouldn't be difficult.
     
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    get over yourself and just go over and start up a conversation.

    in other words, quit trying to lead with the little head and use the big one
     
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    she is blushing because of the thoughts she is having...yes a compliment and I think it's time you make a move one way or another.. no one is forcing her to look..
     
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    i get it, i will be back at uni around end of january after holiday break and then i will look for her and hit her up with a hi etc.
     
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    SOMEBODY SAVE ME I'M DYING OF LAUGHTER HAHAHAHA

    How? Or better, why? I'm assuming she saw a bulge and not exactly your penis directly.
     
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    it wasnt a bulge because he went down fully hard in the left side of trousers (tight jeans) and it was before i knew she is doing phd at my uni
     
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    Sorry, I don't get it. She saw your dick from inside your trousers?
     
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    you are so thick, no wonder Canada is a wilderness
     
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    I'm not originally from Canada so please refrain from meaningless accusations. I wasn't being mean in the first place, I just didn't understand what you were saying.
     
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    Sorry to disappoint you, anything to do with yr dick is NON urgent
    (unless its health related)
    Just relax and let things floooow ...
    and if it gets hard again... whack it'
     
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    what's your length and girth? and how did it happen that you had an hard on in the mall??
     
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    :pat:

    :haha: you crack me up
     
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    i love it when guys (especially extra hung ones) get hard in public and i hope you don't take dandelion's advice to tuck it away! i agree that she's blushing because of the thoughts it makes her have every time she sees you now. make a move, don't be too crude, but make it obvious you know she wants your big cock and you wanna give it to her!
     
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