wvalady1968: Hello, first I want to say that this forum is great!! What an insight into what guys think but don't tell women!! I have to tell my friends about this. And you all seem to be mostly good people. I really liked the way you helped Nate with his problem.
I found this forum in a search for a solution to a problem I'm having. Two and a half months ago, I met this wonderful guy. We dated for 8-10 weeks before we began having sex; the last couple of weeks I was willing, but he said we weren't ready. I thought it was because the anniversary of his wife's death was coming up or something.
Well, I soon found out what well endowed was [Before, I sincerely thought talk of such large guys was an urban myth or bragging!], and my initial response was pretty much the same as Nate's wife. But this wonderful guy had spent a lot of time building up trust, and he proceeded to spend almost as much time
in foreplay. After the first couple of sessions, I was able to completely accomodate him.
He's a fantastic lover and we haven't spent a night apart since that first time, often making love several times a night. I have no one to talk to about this. My problem is that my tender parts are very tender. Using a mirror I noticed three areas inside my labia that almost look like blisters? ???
I'm pretty sure that I don't have any STD. I hadn't had sex for 2 1/2 years, and he hadn't dated since his wife died. [He says he never cheated on her in the 16 years they were married.] And besides, we always use condoms.
So logic and symptoms lead me to believe that this is just from going at it too much. My question is: what do I do about it? I've joked that we have to let "Her" heal a few days, but I know there's no way we'll do that. I've been using cortisone ointment, but even that burns.
Any ideas? Thanks for the help.
Allie
I found this forum in a search for a solution to a problem I'm having. Two and a half months ago, I met this wonderful guy. We dated for 8-10 weeks before we began having sex; the last couple of weeks I was willing, but he said we weren't ready. I thought it was because the anniversary of his wife's death was coming up or something.
Well, I soon found out what well endowed was [Before, I sincerely thought talk of such large guys was an urban myth or bragging!], and my initial response was pretty much the same as Nate's wife. But this wonderful guy had spent a lot of time building up trust, and he proceeded to spend almost as much time
in foreplay. After the first couple of sessions, I was able to completely accomodate him. He's a fantastic lover and we haven't spent a night apart since that first time, often making love several times a night. I have no one to talk to about this. My problem is that my tender parts are very tender. Using a mirror I noticed three areas inside my labia that almost look like blisters? ???
I'm pretty sure that I don't have any STD. I hadn't had sex for 2 1/2 years, and he hadn't dated since his wife died. [He says he never cheated on her in the 16 years they were married.] And besides, we always use condoms.
So logic and symptoms lead me to believe that this is just from going at it too much. My question is: what do I do about it? I've joked that we have to let "Her" heal a few days, but I know there's no way we'll do that. I've been using cortisone ointment, but even that burns.
Any ideas? Thanks for the help.
Allie
