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Alright, Me and my girlfriend just broke up. It wasn't one of those, "I hate you" kind of break ups, it was one of those, "It's better if we are just really good friends, for now" sort of things. I found out that she and one of my good friends are more or less dating (he's going away to college). I don't feel fucked over or anything, though,
But here's what confuses me, we still take walks along the river, we still put our arms around each other, we still hold hands, we still go to movies (with a group) and sit by each other.
Last night she told me that she was sad happy. That her body was happy-as in tingly and excited. But her mind was sad-as in disappointed and lonely.
So before you can make an accurate guess at what's going on, here is some background info.
I'm a young guy, 18 to be exact, and she's going to be a senior in high school; I'm going to be a freshman in college. I'm going to college in Colorado, not Nebraska, where I live. We dated for a year and a half before this happened. My friend (the person who she's more or less dating) is going to college in South Dakota.
I'm about 100% sure that she and I do more stuff together than her and my friend.
So, I don't know what I should do. Her telling me that she's disappointed and lonely leads me to believe that she isn't quite satisfied with her and my friend. And I'm 50/50 on wether or not she wants to get back together with me.
She's told me she loves me. And I still love her.
She doesn't know what she wants and it's confusing.
Any advice would be greatly appreciated. :redface:
But here's what confuses me, we still take walks along the river, we still put our arms around each other, we still hold hands, we still go to movies (with a group) and sit by each other.
Last night she told me that she was sad happy. That her body was happy-as in tingly and excited. But her mind was sad-as in disappointed and lonely.
So before you can make an accurate guess at what's going on, here is some background info.
I'm a young guy, 18 to be exact, and she's going to be a senior in high school; I'm going to be a freshman in college. I'm going to college in Colorado, not Nebraska, where I live. We dated for a year and a half before this happened. My friend (the person who she's more or less dating) is going to college in South Dakota.
I'm about 100% sure that she and I do more stuff together than her and my friend.
So, I don't know what I should do. Her telling me that she's disappointed and lonely leads me to believe that she isn't quite satisfied with her and my friend. And I'm 50/50 on wether or not she wants to get back together with me.
She's told me she loves me. And I still love her.
She doesn't know what she wants and it's confusing.
Any advice would be greatly appreciated. :redface: