i need some female advice(not penis size question)

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  1. jeffy21

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    Sorry i know this is long but i would really apreciate any advice given.

    This weekend i went back to a girls house(id never met her before) after a night out. I have not had much sex before so i am very inexperienced.
    Anyway we were in bed and she told me she had her period which i didnt mind so i let her know and we went ahead anyway. Just before though she said a few things. two of which were "oh i want to feel your balls slap my ass" and "i could fuck you all night" this threw me off as i kinda figured she was up for a pretty hard fucking(i was more into a bit more of a softer experience).

    Now i have small balls and so there is no way they were going to be slapping ass so i turned her over and went in from behind. (as if things werent going badly enough all the booze i had drunk had afected the hardness of my penis) so thinking i wasnt going to satisfy her i started thrusting very hard and fast(there had been planty foreplay and she was slippery) but after like a minute she said it was hurting her cos being on her period was making her more sensitive.

    I feel terrible about the way i acted as i feel like i just treated her like an object. Really all i wanted to do was make her feel good but i just have no idea what i am doing (i think watching porn doesnt help either as its not reality)

    Anyway in the morning i just absolutely loved her she had the most beautiful way about her and was so nice to be around. I know i am going to see her again at some point and ive texted her a few times.

    My question is about her period, i have no idea about the female anatomy so is that common about being extra sensitive when on your period or was she just not wanting what i was giving.
     
  2. ManlyBanisters

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    OK - for starters please don't worry so much - If things were pleasant between you two in the morning then you can't have fucked up that badly.

    Period cramps can make certain sexual things different - certain things can hurt more but also a good hard fucking is one of the best ways to get past period cramps that I know of. Maybe she had heard (or experienced) this and wanted to try it (again). But it doesn't always work.

    Relax - you tried to do what she asked, you stopped when she needed you to. I don't see a single thing wrong with what you have done. If you have any qualms at all try talking to her. Tell her you're worried you'd made a bad impression - hey, if you wanna make light of it offer to be her sex slave for a night to 'make up for it'. You have nothing to make up for, as far as I can tell, but I bet it'll make her smile.

    Good luck :smile:
     
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    First things first..Thank you for actually posting a legit question for the women, and not "how big is my dick question".

    I tend to agree with Manly, that you seemed to want to please her, and hurting her was not your intention, at all.

    Given that, when I have my period it feels really great when I have intercourse harder than usual, since it alleviates my period cramps. This doesn't ring true for all women, since we are all different in that department.

    Have you tried expressing your concerns with her? I think if you guys were having an amicable morning conversation you haven't fucked up at all.

    Good luck.
     
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    A good morning means a good night. If she didn't enjoy you she would have made you leave. I hope you get to enjoy each other more the next time. You seem like a caring and attentive lover.Once again, good luck.
     
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    I tend to get especially horny during ovulation and right before my period - and sometimes during my period as well. My ex-husband wouldn't even come near my pussy during my period - he got freaked out by the blood. Having my period doesn't so much make me more sensitive... it's more that it changes the sensations. Also a woman might feel more lubricated than she is because it feels wet but it isn't an effective lubricant.

    I agree with MB and the other ladies, it sounds like you listened to her wishes and desires. It was uncomfortable, she told you, and you stopped. Regardless of whether it was the booze or the period, it wasn't working that night. You also had good conversation in the morning so there are lots of good signs there that she's game to try again. She may be having the same conversation going on in her head, that she liked you and wishing she wasn't so tender. When you talk to her, make sure you let her know how much you liked her, how pretty she is, how easy she was to talk to, how you felt like the two of you clicked.

    Oh, and if you haven't called her yet you better call her tomorrow - it's always good to call by Monday, Tuesday at the latest. And this time, keep it to a 2 drink limit this time though.
     
  6. jeffy21

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    Thanks everyone for all your thoughts, i feel much better about this now.

    I dont think im going to get with her again though, as much as i liked her, from her comment it seems she likes a big set of balls which im so far from having its upsetting. but at least i dont feel like an asshole now.
     
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    Your balls are not small.
     
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