So let me start by saying my head is jumbled. One of my best female friends who I hang out with daily, is well my main attraction and likewise with her to me. We both have mutual feelings about each other and the status we have, but lately it's been getting blurred for both us. We have casual sex with each other every now and then and while the thought of a relationship again (we dated a long time ago for a few months), we just don't want to see the other hurt. When it comes to other people and having sex with other people, there are no limitations as we're not dating and feel we both deserve our freedom. We've both admitted to caring about it, if it happens of course, and it does and has. Well, she went on vacation and had sex with a guy who used to live where I live. We talked about it as she knew it bothered me to an extent and the only real problem I have with it now is, I can't really decide if it would be smart to continue our sexual relationship or if I should cut it off. I feel biased as I know if I were in the same situation I would have done the same and it'd be a flipped scenario. Just curious as to what others input on the situation and advice. All our friends don't understand why we just don't date, but we both want freedom, but there's no denying we both care about each other. So it's like a push & pull kind of situation. Thoughts and some intelligent advice?