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Women are different. If you look around the internet you will find a lot of claims that anywhere from 70 to 90% do not reach orgasm from penis in vagina intercourse without direct clitoral stimulation from fingers or a vibrator.

I can't claim to have had sex with hundreds of women but my experience has been a bit different. It may be skewed but it is the only experience I have so I will relate it.

Of the women I have had sex with almost exactly half appeared to have an orgasm at least once during PIV sex without direct clitoral stimulation. A few of my relationships have been brief in duration or weekend long affairs but most have lasted at least a few weeks. About 1 in 5 of the women I have had sex with came quite regularly with PIV sex, perhaps not every time but 90% of the time or more. About a third orgasmed sometimes ranging from every other time to very occasionally.

For the half who did climax with PIV sex they often didn't come the first few times or even weeks. I think it was a matter of the two of us figuring out what worked best for them (in terms of position, rhythm, etc) as well as them becoming relaxed enough for orgasm to occur. Also, most guys tend to come more quickly with a new partner for a while and that might have had something to do with it. So I have wondered if some of the women I had rather brief relationships with who didn't orgasm with PIV intercourse might have done so if we had been together longer.

But there were certainly women I was with for a good while who never came during PIV sex. But that doesn't mean they didn't orgasm from oral sex or digital stimulation. And it doesn't mean the didn't enjoy vaginal intercourse. For a lot of women, vaginal intercourse provides a closeness and emotional attachment that oral sex lacks. And they enjoy it because their partner enjoys it, and has orgasms with it.

The handful of female partners I had who came just about every time with PIV sex tended to follow the same pattern. They usually liked to be on top and bear down pretty hard against my pubis. I'm sure that the indirect clitoral stimulation from the pressure played a big role. But they also seemed to like really deep vaginal penetration as well (or at least as deep as I could provide) without a lot of in and out movement but more pelvic rocking and grinding. One of these girls had fantastic vaginal muscles and could contract them to actually help herself orgasm (and drive me wild at the same time). All but one of these females also had orgasms with oral sex or digital clitoral stimulation but they told me that the vaginal orgasms "felt different" than the ones from direct clitoral stimulation.

My wife is one of the women who only fairly rarely has an obvious orgasm with PIV sex. When it happens neither she nor I can identify exactly what combination of moves, thoughts, or circumstances triggered it, and we have been screwing each other for over 30 years. She says she has "little orgasms" from vaginal sex though, whatever those are.

Here is a survey you might find interesting taken from 100+ women on regarding their sexual behavior including how often they masturbated, how they masturbated, how they liked to be masturbated by a partner, whether they liked direct clitoral stimulation during vaginal intercourse, and whether they came without direct clitoral stimulation:
Women's sex experiences

If you scroll down to question 12 you will find that about 43% of these women came at least half the time they had PIV intercourse without direct clitoral stimulation, and another 25% came that way at least occasionally. Only 32% said they had never had an orgasm with PIV sex without clitoral stimulation. I suspect that women who are more vaginally orgasmic might possibly be more likely to participate in a survey like this, but for what it is worth these responses are more in keeping of what I have personally observed with the women I have had sex with.

Gottcha', I really appreciate all of the information it's very helpful. We tried having sex again last night, it wasn't going too bad but when we got to the condom I just simply lost the erection. I don't know if it was me being depressed from the whole thing or the condom killing the erection.

We then decided to try without the condom (her suggestion) and I was able to keep the erection (it was pretty hard) so I suppose the condom is killing it for me but I'm still not sure. Is it really that big of a difference for a girl with or without a condom? Apparently most girls can't tell the difference between a condom and a regular penis so I'm not sure if she was faking the pleasure or not. I know it does frustrate her knowing that it is bothering me so much but I really don't want to sit there pounding away while she feels nothing ultimately making her feel like an object; which she is not.

Is the sex a make/break for your relationship?

No, it is not.
 

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I have not heard women say there is a huge difference in sensation depending on whether the guy is wearing a condom or not. A lot of guys complain about condoms, of course.

If your girlfriend was a virgin, she didn't know what to expect from having sex any more than you did. Maybe she was expecting skyrockets to go off and was a little let down when they didn't. For most couples sex is something they sort of have to work on as they go along, and usually it gets better as they do.
 

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I am noticing that not a lot of people are giving you enlargement advice. I guess that is kind of good in a way since it shows that maybe all guys are obsessed with dick size. But I am one of those guys! Lol. So before I give you any type of enlargement advice, I would like to know how do you feel about your size? If you are or were happy with it before this incident with the girlfriend I would suggest that you try to move on and find other ways to pleasure her. If she likes spanking, tit play, tongue in ear, pussy eating, etc. do one or all of those things with abandon until she is so worked up and wet that when the fucking does start she's already halfway to heaven. But if you were a bit bothered about your size or a lot bothered by it before this, there are options. And yes you could still continue to grow in the penis department naturally into your twenties. Whatever you do, don't start fucking with hormones or steroids just yet. If you do, you could possibly stop any future growth prematurely if there is still some growth in you. Right before bedtime take L-Arginine & L-Lysine capsules together in equal doses. At least 1000 mg each. This will keep your HGH levels at peak performance naturally without fucking with your hormones. This may give you a better chance at continued growth. But if you really dig this chick and if she is really into you, the best thing you can do is find out what drives her crazy and give it to her better than anyone else can. Don't be afraid to experiment. If she doesn't like it, trust me she will tell you. And don't always judge what you do by what you think she will like. Women can surprise you. But I can tell you one thing from experience a woman can smell weakness from 100 miles away. And women don't like weak insecure men. Don't be timid with her. Make a decision and go for it. Be loving, passionate, strong, and sure in everything you do. Win the gold! Lol. Best luck man!
 

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I have not heard women say there is a huge difference in sensation depending on whether the guy is wearing a condom or not. A lot of guys complain about condoms, of course.

If your girlfriend was a virgin, she didn't know what to expect from having sex any more than you did. Maybe she was expecting skyrockets to go off and was a little let down when they didn't. For most couples sex is something they sort of have to work on as they go along, and usually it gets better as they do.

She said she noticed a pretty big difference, she stills says the fingers are better because they allow me to maneuver better inside of her. We've talked about the situation and it got much better, I'm not so paranoid about my size anymore but I still want to be a bit bigger (this is something I've thought about for awhile as I was growing up, but never really thought about doing something about it until I got into this relationship).


Well she accepts my penis size and I don't think it bothers her, it bothers me mainly because I do want her to enjoy it. It certainly bothers me more than it does her, she constantly tells me it isn't a big deal.

I am noticing that not a lot of people are giving you enlargement advice. I guess that is kind of good in a way since it shows that maybe all guys are obsessed with dick size. But I am one of those guys! Lol. So before I give you any type of enlargement advice, I would like to know how do you feel about your size? If you are or were happy with it before this incident with the girlfriend I would suggest that you try to move on and find other ways to pleasure her. If she likes spanking, tit play, tongue in ear, pussy eating, etc. do one or all of those things with abandon until she is so worked up and wet that when the fucking does start she's already halfway to heaven. But if you were a bit bothered about your size or a lot bothered by it before this, there are options. And yes you could still continue to grow in the penis department naturally into your twenties. Whatever you do, don't start fucking with hormones or steroids just yet. If you do, you could possibly stop any future growth prematurely if there is still some growth in you. Right before bedtime take L-Arginine & L-Lysine capsules together in equal doses. At least 1000 mg each. This will keep your HGH levels at peak performance naturally without fucking with your hormones. This may give you a better chance at continued growth. But if you really dig this chick and if she is really into you, the best thing you can do is find out what drives her crazy and give it to her better than anyone else can. Don't be afraid to experiment. If she doesn't like it, trust me she will tell you. And don't always judge what you do by what you think she will like. Women can surprise you. But I can tell you one thing from experience a woman can smell weakness from 100 miles away. And women don't like weak insecure men. Don't be timid with her. Make a decision and go for it. Be loving, passionate, strong, and sure in everything you do. Win the gold! Lol. Best luck man!

Before the incident I still considered myself to be pretty small, I would have liked it to grow more and I only became determined to do something about it until this incident. In earlier years I thought it was just because of my age and development that I simply didn't finish growing my penis but I'm hitting 19 in November and I don't like my size at the moment.

We do plenty of foreplay before we engage in sex, that isn't exactly a problem. She loves it when I eat her out and finger her, I certainly won't be going after any hormones or steroids. I'm a body builder and don't touch steroids for my muscles and I refuse to touch them for penis as well.

I do take a pre-workout supplement known as Jack3d and I'm afraid that might be fucking with things, I'll need to drop by a doctor to confirm. I'll look definitely look into the L-Arginine and L-Lysine. I appreciate all the insight man, thank you!

Also I wanted to ask you, since you started taking L Arginine and Lysine did you notice a significant improvement? Could you run through your history? If you don't mind of course!
My problem now is jelqing with foreskin. O_O
 
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Does anyone think I should consider dabbling with the Bathmate? Apparently it is a great warm up and that's one thing I usually have trouble with is the warm up.

Also could someone give me some tips on how you jelq with foreskin? It is very difficult. :x
 

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Women are always talking about the size on a guy's dick, like all pussy is good. How do you think she would feel if she read a tex you sent to one of your boys about her having small tits or ass? Don't even sweat it, you have more than enough to satisfy a woman, don't let her mess with your mind. If you are going to do penis enlargement, do it for yourself, not her. You are young, like someone else has said, there are plenty of fish in the sea bro.
 

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Women are always talking about the size on a guy's dick, like all pussy is good. How do you think she would feel if she read a tex you sent to one of your boys about her having small tits or ass? Don't even sweat it, you have more than enough to satisfy a woman, don't let her mess with your mind. If you are going to do penis enlargement, do it for yourself, not her. You are young, like someone else has said, there are plenty of fish in the sea bro.

I appreciate the encouragement and initial I was considering doing it for her but thinking about it now, if the relationship doesn't turn out good I can predict having the same problem later down the road in the future with other girls so I really want to get a handle on it early and put some serious work into it.

I just need some help with this foreskin jelq. :(
 

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but thinking about it now, if the relationship doesn't turn out good I can predict having the same problem later down the road in the future with other girls so I really want to get a handle on it early and put some serious work into it.

Honestly, some people love a nice-sized cock. That is a given fact. But I hope that people realize that there comes a time when you have to be happy with the cards you have been dealt. (Hey, I will never be Jon Hamm and I am a gay black man. And I wish I were Jon Hamm for a week. LOL)


I hope that you don't do anything drastic as far as your penis is concerned. It is the only sex organ you will have for the rest of your life.


If your girlfriend is discussing what you are lacking...you should honestly reconsider her as a lifemate. And I can tell you from my experience...my boyfriend of six years left me for three black guys who were substantially well-endowed than I was. He couldn't even tell me about the affairs. All that ended bad because he couldn't tell me he cheated on me and preferred being with the larger men. I tried to get that shithead to be upfront and honest with me about it because we ended up not having sex...and the shithead wouldn't say anything.


I couldn't compete with any of that bullshit. And I hope that one day you don't have to deal with the hurt I had to go through. And don't fuck up your penis in hopes of keeping a woman.


 

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If PE is for you in general, in that you want to make yourself feel better - after thinking about if you really want to do it: then do it.
If its for the sake of one girl, or woman, then rethink your reasons: if you get big for her and you end up not liking it, then you'd need to take surgical means to reduce the size. With one's penis, surgery always causes complications.
 

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redbear and seahorses have already made many excellent points that you should certainly digest. I would like to make a couple of additional points for your consideration.

1. Your penis is average or slightly above average. Self-reported surveys, beginning with Kinsey et al have skewed the mean bell-curve towards a figure approaching six inches. However, in the last couple of years, the W.H.O. has arrived at a figure of around 12.9cm, which translates as around 5.1 inches. This figure is drawn from many surveys, and you can bet that their statisticians are better mathematicians than me; all I know is that self-reported measurements are exaggerated and can now be discredited.
So, from my very limited smattering of statistics, you are bigger than around half of the world's male population. Okay, so you're already ahead.

2. You are very young. People grow at different rates. At 13, I was taller than all of my mates. However, I stayed at around 5'11" while a couple of them shot past me to 6'1" or 6'3" in our late teens. What the hell has this to do with my penis, you may ask? Well, my cock didn't stop growing both in length, but very markedly in girth until I was perhaps 22 or 23. I have no idea if this is common, but it happened to me.

3. When I was young, obtaining pornography was extremely difficult, and we had to use all our wits to find even a torn page out of a magazine to view an image of an erect penis or an open pussy. The kid who had managed to steal some of his dad's or brother's porn was hailed as a hero, and this grubby, stained magazine would be passed around us to keep for two nights before being passed on to another member of our secret little smut club. These days it is often quite difficult to avoid the darn stuff - and we know that women look at porn and make assumptions of what they deam might be "average" based on the freakish sizes of pornstars. In that respect, we were better off in the dark as it were, safe in the knowledge that our girlfriends had nothing to compare with. Now, obviously I don't know your girlfriend, but I can bet that she didn't type "small penis porn" into her search engine! Bummer, I know, but hey, whaddya gonna do - I read recently that there are upwards of 4 billion pages of pornography on the Internet and that number is growing exponentially every minute.

4. Considering all of the above, and the fact that your penis is not small, do a search for sites to help men who are indeed tiny. You will see that there are lots of extremely small penes around, I'm talking the size of the last joint of your little finger small! For every huge cock you see in porn, there is one that is conversely the same amount under the average bell curve. You won't see these, for obvious reasons [they don't appear in porn!]

5. PE does work, there are countless testimonies from men here who have nothing to sell, and indeed no reason to lie. Ignore the naysayers, and remember the most important tenet, that results will not happen overnight. It really is a case of slowly slowly catchy monkey. Some guys on this board have been doing it for decades, and have seen substantial gains. Many of them began PE in middle age, you have a head start of decades if you begin now.

6. Work on your oral techniques - eating pussy is my idea of heaven - so don't think of it as a chore!

7. Enjoy! And good luck!
 

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I am guessing it was not her first time because if it was, she should have been able to feel it whether or not you are 3", 5.5" or 9" Also, if this was her first time, how does she know whether or not you are big or small or just average.

Dump her. She is not appreciative of you. Dump her. She will cheat on you for a man who is bigger. Dump her. She lied about virginity.

You sound like a great guy with genuine concern for a relationship. There are other women, lots of them, go find one that makes you happy, not worried, and make her happy!
 

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Honestly, some people love a nice-sized cock. That is a given fact. But I hope that people realize that there comes a time when you have to be happy with the cards you have been dealt. (Hey, I will never be Jon Hamm and I am a gay black man. And I wish I were Jon Hamm for a week. LOL)


I hope that you don't do anything drastic as far as your penis is concerned. It is the only sex organ you will have for the rest of your life.


If your girlfriend is discussing what you are lacking...you should honestly reconsider her as a lifemate. And I can tell you from my experience...my boyfriend of six years left me for three black guys who were substantially well-endowed than I was. He couldn't even tell me about the affairs. All that ended bad because he couldn't tell me he cheated on me and preferred being with the larger men. I tried to get that shithead to be upfront and honest with me about it because we ended up not having sex...and the shithead wouldn't say anything.


I couldn't compete with any of that bullshit. And I hope that one day you don't have to deal with the hurt I had to go through. And don't fuck up your penis in hopes of keeping a woman.



I don't want a 9" or 10" cock, that definitely isn't my goal not only would I NOT be happy with that I also don't think that is a very realistic goal for myself. I'm aiming for 6 1/2", 7" would be ideal for me but I REALLY would be satisfied with 6 and 1/2" with a good amount of girth to it.

She wasn't really talking about what I was "lacking", in the conversation she didn't sit there and go "yeah he's so small, I don't like it at all" she simply said (since it was both out first time) that she didn't really feel it.

I'm attributing that to the condom, my erection problem with condoms and technique. We had sex again without the condom, in a modified position (pillow under her ass and missionary) and she said it was a BIG improvement she loved it so that's good.


If PE is for you in general, in that you want to make yourself feel better - after thinking about if you really want to do it: then do it.
If its for the sake of one girl, or woman, then rethink your reasons: if you get big for her and you end up not liking it, then you'd need to take surgical means to reduce the size. With one's penis, surgery always causes complications.

At first I was really frustrated with what I found out with my girlfriend but I then kind of mellowed out about it all. I'm a body builder and am very committed to lifting and always better myself. Competition drives me to go 110% in everything I do. I never really knew this type of PE was an option and learning about it is very interesting and as of this point I'm really only doing it for myself, yeah she'll feel it and like it more I'm assuming but it will definitely help me a lot.


redbear and seahorses have already made many excellent points that you should certainly digest. I would like to make a couple of additional points for your consideration.

1. Your penis is average or slightly above average. Self-reported surveys, beginning with Kinsey et al have skewed the mean bell-curve towards a figure approaching six inches. However, in the last couple of years, the W.H.O. has arrived at a figure of around 12.9cm, which translates as around 5.1 inches. This figure is drawn from many surveys, and you can bet that their statisticians are better mathematicians than me; all I know is that self-reported measurements are exaggerated and can now be discredited.
So, from my very limited smattering of statistics, you are bigger than around half of the world's male population. Okay, so you're already ahead.

2. You are very young. People grow at different rates. At 13, I was taller than all of my mates. However, I stayed at around 5'11" while a couple of them shot past me to 6'1" or 6'3" in our late teens. What the hell has this to do with my penis, you may ask? Well, my cock didn't stop growing both in length, but very markedly in girth until I was perhaps 22 or 23. I have no idea if this is common, but it happened to me.

3. When I was young, obtaining pornography was extremely difficult, and we had to use all our wits to find even a torn page out of a magazine to view an image of an erect penis or an open pussy. The kid who had managed to steal some of his dad's or brother's porn was hailed as a hero, and this grubby, stained magazine would be passed around us to keep for two nights before being passed on to another member of our secret little smut club. These days it is often quite difficult to avoid the darn stuff - and we know that women look at porn and make assumptions of what they deam might be "average" based on the freakish sizes of pornstars. In that respect, we were better off in the dark as it were, safe in the knowledge that our girlfriends had nothing to compare with. Now, obviously I don't know your girlfriend, but I can bet that she didn't type "small penis porn" into her search engine! Bummer, I know, but hey, whaddya gonna do - I read recently that there are upwards of 4 billion pages of pornography on the Internet and that number is growing exponentially every minute.

4. Considering all of the above, and the fact that your penis is not small, do a search for sites to help men who are indeed tiny. You will see that there are lots of extremely small penes around, I'm talking the size of the last joint of your little finger small! For every huge cock you see in porn, there is one that is conversely the same amount under the average bell curve. You won't see these, for obvious reasons [they don't appear in porn!]

5. PE does work, there are countless testimonies from men here who have nothing to sell, and indeed no reason to lie. Ignore the naysayers, and remember the most important tenet, that results will not happen overnight. It really is a case of slowly slowly catchy monkey. Some guys on this board have been doing it for decades, and have seen substantial gains. Many of them began PE in middle age, you have a head start of decades if you begin now.

6. Work on your oral techniques - eating pussy is my idea of heaven - so don't think of it as a chore!

7. Enjoy! And good luck!

I certainly won't be dismissing the fact that I could still grow and I'm hoping for it and it's good to know that I'm average but I still want to pursue PE. It's just my competitive nature, I want to do it and I'm determined to succeed.

You bring up some phenomenal points, I do blame the media on how it has convoluted what we perceive to be a "regular" penis to be. I don't expect to see 6" gains overnight, considering I lift religiously I know how hard gains can be and I can't expect to get anything overnight, it takes hard work and determination to get the results you crave.

She loves it when I give her oral so I'm going to assume I do it pretty well, I don't find it to be a chore at all I love going down on her. It is definitely something I'm going to refine more and more over time.

Thanks for all the help and reassurance, I appreciate it.

I am guessing it was not her first time because if it was, she should have been able to feel it whether or not you are 3", 5.5" or 9" Also, if this was her first time, how does she know whether or not you are big or small or just average.

Dump her. She is not appreciative of you. Dump her. She will cheat on you for a man who is bigger. Dump her. She lied about virginity.

You sound like a great guy with genuine concern for a relationship. There are other women, lots of them, go find one that makes you happy, not worried, and make her happy!

I know I probably sound like most guys when I say "oh she definitely isn't a virgin" and I honestly can't say for sure because there IS always that possibility but I've known her long enough to know that she isn't the type of girl to sleep around, she's been dropping hints to be with me for almost a year now and has turned down four guys just for me before we even started dating. Her life is very hectic and busy (very intelligent and loaded with a lot of advanced placement class) and just her schedule alone doesn't allow her to "sleep around".

I was also the one who broke her hymen from fingering her, I know this isn't a sure fire indicator but I broke it and she bled. She said it wasn't that she couldn't feel it, it was more of a "it was there, but no real sensation". I don't know if I can attribute this to the condom or if I just didn't have a strong erection (I don't hold up very well when I put on the condom because I was having some trouble feeling it too). I'm sorry if it came off as if she is badgering me about my penis size because she isn't, she talked to her close family friend about it (not like some random chick at school) and her friend started the conversation because she told her that she finally lost her virginity so I'm assuming it was her first time. She is perfectly fine with my size and I'm sure I'm just over stressing this, sex has gotten better since our first time and we've been working on our positioning and rhythm so I'm guessing that is helping a lot.

She has watched porn before and I'ma ssuming she has seen larger cocks, she didn't say I was small but she did say I wasn't that long in the conversation but I guess she can base my size on other objects.

She really is a great girl and cares a lot about me, we've talked about the topic and she even said that last thing she would ever consider is leaving me for my penis size because it doesn't concern her. She said we probably just need to work on it (that's what her friend told her), I guess most people's first time isn't as amazing as everyone thinks.

I'm still going to undergo PE simply because it is something I want to do. I appreciate all of the input guys, it helped out a lot.
 

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3. When I was young, obtaining pornography was extremely difficult, and we had to use all our wits to find even a torn page out of a magazine to view an image of an erect penis or an open pussy. The kid who had managed to steal some of his dad's or brother's porn was hailed as a hero, and this grubby, stained magazine would be passed around us to keep for two nights before being passed on to another member of our secret little smut club.
Don't mean to change the subject, but I busted out laughing reading this part! That's exactly how I remember it from when I was a kid. The dad porn stuff wasn't usually all that explicit either (Playboy/Penthouse). The good stuff was sometimes even found on the ground by someone at places we shouldn't have been hanging out. Almost makes you feel sorry for kids these days. They've got nothing to look forward to. :tongue:

And best of luck to you _Riker_ no matter which way you go. I personally am now on the lookout for a girl who puts penis size at low priority. In my experience that seems to be many of the ones I've liked or respected for other qualities anyhow, so it works both ways I guess.

Crunch
 

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Don't mean to change the subject, but I busted out laughing reading this part! That's exactly how I remember it from when I was a kid. The dad porn stuff wasn't usually all that explicit either (Playboy/Penthouse). The good stuff was sometimes even found on the ground by someone at places we shouldn't have been hanging out. Almost makes you feel sorry for kids these days. They've got nothing to look forward to. :tongue:

And best of luck to you _Riker_ no matter which way you go. I personally am now on the lookout for a girl who puts penis size at low priority. In my experience that seems to be many of the ones I've liked or respected for other qualities anyhow, so it works both ways I guess.

Crunch

Thanks buddy and best of luck to you too, I'm sure you'll find that one girl that makes you go wild.

:D
 

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Don't mean to change the subject, but I busted out laughing reading this part! That's exactly how I remember it from when I was a kid. The dad porn stuff wasn't usually all that explicit either (Playboy/Penthouse). The good stuff was sometimes even found on the ground by someone at places we shouldn't have been hanging out. Almost makes you feel sorry for kids these days. They've got nothing to look forward to. :tongue:

And best of luck to you _Riker_ no matter which way you go. I personally am now on the lookout for a girl who puts penis size at low priority. In my experience that seems to be many of the ones I've liked or respected for other qualities anyhow, so it works both ways I guess.

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When I was a young pup, the best collection of girlie magazines was kept in a secret drawer at a local barber shop in my small town. These were allegedly pretty explicit ones that someone probably had to make a monthly pilgrimage to a seedy adult store in the "big city" to buy. The older guys in town would leaf through the pussy magazines while getting their hair cut, usually when all the youngsters were in school.

These were kept out of sight when little squirts like me were there. Some info leaked out of course and was quickly passed around and tales of unmentionable, unimaginable activities such as anal intercourse and girls licking each others cunt's abounded among the junior high school male population.

For years I couldn't wait to become old enough to look at the magazines too. By the time I did political correctness and propriety had reared their ugly heads, and all the magazines had all been thrown out.
 

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I don't want a 9" or 10" cock, that definitely isn't my goal not only would I NOT be happy with that I also don't think that is a very realistic goal for myself. I'm aiming for 6 1/2", 7" would be ideal for me but I REALLY would be satisfied with 6 and 1/2" with a good amount of girth to it.

She wasn't really talking about what I was "lacking", in the conversation she didn't sit there and go "yeah he's so small, I don't like it at all" she simply said (since it was both out first time) that she didn't really feel it.

I'm attributing that to the condom, my erection problem with condoms and technique. We had sex again without the condom, in a modified position (pillow under her ass and missionary) and she said it was a BIG improvement she loved it so that's good.


Thanks for clarifying your situation on that. I wish you the best with your girlfriend. :smile:

 

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riker, i am so new to this forum but i aint new to life so here's my two cents worth eh.

you are losing erections because you are losing confidence.
you are contemplating penis enlargement because you think you are inadequate for your gf.
you are putting too much into this girl and this may cause ur confidence to erode.

Suppose(i say suppose) she is a size queen or is on her way to being one - what's gonna happen to your relationship?
u can grow 1 inch, maybe 2 as i believe most are able to achieve abeit over a long period of time. at 7.5" you are still not going to be the biggest that she will ever see.

me, i am 5.75" on my best day. but i have had women tellin me i am a better lover than their 8" ex husbands. women needs to be pleasured in the brains first. that is of course imho - everything else, you must know the g-spot and the clit with ur fingers n ur tongue.

Dude, make changes only for a girl who is worth makin changes for. Find out if size is such a big thing for her. if yes, move on. You are fine in the size department i assure you but no harm learning what triggers the brains of women.
 

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heres the deal, try masturbating. the more you can control your tool, the more your control will extend to sex. I masturbate all the time and have total control of my tool. when Im with my girl, I can last for an hour or 2....that allows her several orgasms...you also have to find the right partner, she may not be right for you and vice versa...its not being superficial, you have to gel with a woman for the sex to be one of a kind, and that will keep you together longer~