1Cody
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If I might add my 2 cents, I see several things. 1. How are you measuring your cock? You said somewhere in the responses that your dick is a little longer than your finger. Out of curiousity I measured my finger. From the flesh in the V between fingers it is about 3 3/4, from the knuckle on the top about 4 1/2 inches. Yes, I have seen some men with really long fingers and maybe you are one of them. The Bone Pressed Erect Length measurement that I learned here was the correct way to measure length. Press the ruler into the pelvic bone and measure from the top to the urethra. 2. Your size is an issue and will always be an issue 3. You are a body builder and I am guessing above average in the looks dept. Could she be wanting to have a hot looking bf? The problem here is that if you meet that need for her she is going to keep you around. 4. For whatever other need she has (sexual) she may look elsewhere. That is really going to hurt.
Someone said to find another girlfriend. I know that you said you love her. Well does she love you? If she loved you, your size wouldn't matter at all no matter what it actually is. There is a lot going on here. Plz forgive me for what I am about to say. True there is more to a relationship than sex, but unfulfilling sex from the get go is no way to start a relationship. That unfulfillment was on her part first and now is on yours. Spare yourself any further pain, grief, and heartache. The thing with PE is that it takes time. Yes, I believe your penis with lengthen and increase in girth some into your early 20s but not significantly. More like it will fill out into a more solid version of what it is now.
Someone said to find another girlfriend. I know that you said you love her. Well does she love you? If she loved you, your size wouldn't matter at all no matter what it actually is. There is a lot going on here. Plz forgive me for what I am about to say. True there is more to a relationship than sex, but unfulfilling sex from the get go is no way to start a relationship. That unfulfillment was on her part first and now is on yours. Spare yourself any further pain, grief, and heartache. The thing with PE is that it takes time. Yes, I believe your penis with lengthen and increase in girth some into your early 20s but not significantly. More like it will fill out into a more solid version of what it is now.