I need some suggestions

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  1. D_Al Frankenbeans

    D_Al Frankenbeans Account Disabled

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    OK, I am 26 and have had about 10 partners and I just started dating this new girl. We have had sex a few times and I am so disappointed in myself because each time I have cum within a minute of being inside her. Her pussy is tighter than I am used to and she can really move her hips. Other than thinking about baseball, what can I do to last longer? I have not had this problem since I was like 17.
     
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    Tell her what you told us, if she's worth being with she'll understand and let you get used to her wonderful body. I've been there...
     
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    I see your problem. You're thinking about baseball. You're from Detroit. You should be thinking about the Lions, you'd last forever.

    (Go Tigers!!!)
     
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    Use a double thick condom to lessen the sensitivity for awhile, and if your big maybe she will stretch out over the months and loosen up that grip on your cock just a bit,(not too much!)
     
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    rub out the easy one first. I hear tell of desensitizing spray, too.
     
  6. bs08

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    I don't know about in the States, but in Canada benzocaine has been approved for non-prescription use and is now available in benzocaine lubricant and condoms lubricated with benzocaine lubricant. The benzocaine allows men to not orgasm as quickly (generally) as sensitivity is decreased. Personally, I'd rather feel everything though.
     
  7. D_Coyne Toss

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    You can have a longer foreplay before, just to take her near the edge without over-stimulating yourself: I think about cunninlingus.

    Frankly talking to her is also very important.

    When you are about to cum you could also press a point in your perineus: Rocco Siffredi uses this techinque (so he wrote) and I must agree it works.
     
  8. dc9

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    Visit your local drug store and look for a product called Maintain.
    It is similar to what bs08 was referring to.
    Good luck man, let us know how you make out.
    Peace
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  9. B_ScaredLittleBoy

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    Or you could just...learn to control yourself.

    I wouldn't put any sort of desensitizing/numbing spray on my favourite penis.
     
  10. D_season 5

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    poppers, and have u kept fucking? at 26 you should be good for a few more rounds..especially after the first load of seed...and if u don't want to fuck after u have cum..fuck until u do
     
  11. snobbes

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    Jack off before you meet up ,. I always last longer the 2. or 3. time.
     
  12. seahorses

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    First off, you don’t have a problem! It's quite natural for men to orgasm quickly. It goes back to stone age days when things needed to be speedy otherwise you might get eaten by a sabre tooth tiger, if becaming too engrossed!! Personally I don’t believe in PE; it’s just a phrase coined by women suffering from retarded orgasms; if they can’t keep up it’s their problem (only joking ladies). However, I worked with a guy who claimed to be a victim of PE and was told by a counsellor to pull his balls downward whenever he felt he was about to come. Apparently your balls pull in tight just before ejaculation and pulling them away stops it. If nothing else, it's worth a try.
     
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    My advice, for what's it's worth....

    Skip the desensitizing creams. What's the point if you're not feeling it?

    I agree with the guys who suggested jerking off before you get started.

    OR, better yet, explain to her that your first load may be real quick becuse she gets you so worked up but let her know the second is much better. Suggest that she take your first load in her mouth and you'll be good for a full evening of fucking. Here's how it play out. She sucks you off. While you're recharging your batteries, you go down on her. When she's begging, you slip your now hard dick in. She'll be comming left and right. Let her squeeze and gyrate. Go to town.

    Have fun and count yourself lucky.

    As far as her having a tight
     
  14. D_Juan_Grande

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    Totally agree. anyone who is worth it will understand
     
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