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Honestly I'm pretty shy and I suck at flirting and meeting women and all that jazz, but my best 'successes' if you want to call them that (sans the women taking initiative) have always been like, just normal conversations. To be fair my success rate as it were is abysmal from my perspective, but I never feel bad when I just try to be me. I do feel you though, because it's even still very difficult for me to have normal conversations with women I am attracted to. It's like my brain is in a traffic jam or something. Actually it's less about attraction itself and more about the pressure of how will this relationship develop, and how far it can develop. Because I can be myself all day when it comes to my friend's frankly amazing girlfriend. He is my friend, and she is my friend, so there is never any pressure about what may happen. I have found a way to keep this mindset with me, but I think it may be the key, for me at least. *shrug*
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