I Need Tips On How To Experiment With Another Straight Guy?

[nomad11]

I'm 27, looking to experiment with another straight guy. The problem is: I don't know how to tell if a straight guy is into experimenting with other dudes! What are some typical signals that say "I'd like to play with your ass/penis"? I've never really done this but I'm determined to get down with another dude before I'm married. Thanks for any advice in advance!

 

[Principessa]

I'm 27, looking to experiment with another straight guy. The problem is: I don't know how to tell if a straight guy is into experimenting with other dudes! What are some typical signals that say "I'd like to play with your ass/penis"? I've never really done this but I'm determined to get down with another dude before I'm married. Thanks for any advice in advance!

First of all a straight guy is not gonna be interested in you. :duh: What you need is a bi or gay man. :yup: My advice is to just go to a gay bar, have a few drinks, and see what happens.

 

[Tattooed Goddess]

Uhm, wrong forum dude. This is for comments, questions and suggestions having to do with LPSG troubleshooting.

Pop this on the Sex with a Large Penis and more people will answer it.

 

[joeweekend]

My suggestion: get on Craigslist. There are going to be plenty of guys in the Dallas area posting in the M4M section of "Casual Encounters" who are gonna consider themselves Str8, but still want to whack off with another guy.

Here: craigslist | personals

You should have no trouble easing into it slowly there.

And hey, dude, let us know what happens!

 

[mitchymo]

What you want to be advertising is a bi-curious hook-up as M4M is likely going to get more response from gay and bi guys. It seems that if you are looking for someone that identifies with you then you need to be more specific about your orientation because there is no way that a true straight guy is going to get involved....unless you pay.

 

[illiniguy03]

sounds like maybe you are trying to get with a specific guy, like a friend? im in the same position....

 

[nomad11]

thanks for the feedback peeps. i got a clearer picture of how to go about this ish

 

[nomad11]

Uhm, wrong forum dude. This is for comments, questions and suggestions having to do with LPSG troubleshooting.

Pop this on the Sex with a Large Penis and more people will answer it.

Thanks for the tip

 

[nomad11]

My suggestion: get on Craigslist. There are going to be plenty of guys in the Dallas area posting in the M4M section of "Casual Encounters" who are gonna consider themselves Str8, but still want to whack off with another guy.

Here: craigslist | personals

You should have no trouble easing into it slowly there.

And hey, dude, let us know what happens!

Craigslist sucks, no one nearly there my age and if they are they all want an effin "athletic build" type. I'm not trying to switch teams, just feel like jacking around. Thanks tho

 

[nomad11]

What you want to be advertising is a bi-curious hook-up as M4M is likely going to get more response from gay and bi guys. It seems that if you are looking for someone that identifies with you then you need to be more specific about your orientation because there is no way that a true straight guy is going to get involved....unless you pay.

I agree somewhat, but I'm not confused with my orientation. Plus, saying I'm bi to just play around with another dude isn't right.

 

[nomad11]

sounds like maybe you are trying to get with a specific guy, like a friend? im in the same position....

Yeah, a friend of mine always seems to be staring at my bulge/ass; he's made it obvious sometimes but I know I would have to be the one to make the first move. I just don't know how to go about it since I've never really done something like that.

 

[pendelum]

hmmm...

in my past experiences you have to level the playing field. Say you rent some movies with graphic sex scenes or something that highlights an actor(s) endowment that you both would enjoy watching on a lazy day. Get some alcohol up in the mix because it truly does lower one's inhibitions and then some. I would always start by making comments regarding such scenes or actors and get a feel for the response.

I've watched porn before with friends and gotten "the eye" or I see them fondling themselves as the scenes grow more intense. Ask if you can see what they are working with...the "nah, you go first in showing" has transpired a couple times as well. I have never been shy regarding pulling out my monster but I certainly don't want to be the one to initiate unless I get the green light.

I've had oral,given, jacked off,...among other things all with friends or guys that were supposed to be str8. Hope this helped somewhat.

Good luck!

 

[helgaleena]

If you were 100% straight you would not be wanting to do this at all. Quit fooling yourself.

 

[D_Mylor Mentallydaft]

I'm 27, looking to experiment with another straight guy. The problem is: I don't know how to tell if a straight guy is into experimenting with other dudes! What are some typical signals that say "I'd like to play with your ass/penis"? I've never really done this but I'm determined to get down with another dude before I'm married. Thanks for any advice in advance!

date rape and a lawyer?

 

[nomad11]

hmmm...

in my past experiences you have to level the playing field. Say you rent some movies with graphic sex scenes or something that highlights an actor(s) endowment that you both would enjoy watching on a lazy day. Get some alcohol up in the mix because it truly does lower one's inhibitions and then some. I would always start by making comments regarding such scenes or actors and get a feel for the response.

I've watched porn before with friends and gotten "the eye" or I see them fondling themselves as the scenes grow more intense. Ask if you can see what they are working with...the "nah, you go first in showing" has transpired a couple times as well. I have never been shy regarding pulling out my monster but I certainly don't want to be the one to initiate unless I get the green light.

I've had oral,given, jacked off,...among other things all with friends or guys that were supposed to be str8. Hope this helped somewhat.

Good luck!

Sounds good to me, haha! I'll try it out and keep you posted. Thanks again

 

[nomad11]

If you were 100% straight you would not be wanting to do this at all. Quit fooling yourself.

Sounds like someone needs a douche, ahem. You don't know me and I don't know you; but at least I don't fantasize about Star Wars characters crotches :biggrin1: it's the web, get a life.

 

[nomad11]

date rape and a lawyer?

LOL, you have no idea how true this can be... :laugh:

 

[DiscoBoy]

Just out of curiosity, why does it have to be a straight guy? You're pretty much setting yourself up for disappointment-- they tend not to partake in homosexual activity. Just sayin'.

 

[D_Jerry_Atric]

If you want to act out the fantasy that bad get with a bisexual or gay guy and do some role play where you both pretend that you're straight men having sex for the first time like you see in gay porn, I have friends that do this.

 

[B_dxjnorto]

Yeah, a friend of mine always seems to be staring at my bulge/ass; he's made it obvious sometimes but I know I would have to be the one to make the first move. I just don't know how to go about it since I've never really done something like that.

Is there any chance of a sleepover or something? I don't know how old you guys are. I had two straight friends in high school that would grab each other's dicks under the covers. Not real pleasurable, but they would tease each other about getting hard. One of my favorite things with a buddy is to lay opposite ways on the bed and rub each others' balls. I enjoy a good ball massage so much I could stop with just that. Or a happy ending. Either way.