I Need Tips On How To Experiment With Another Straight Guy?

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:eek: Whoa, talk about imagination LOL. I would have never thought of this but it sounds like it could work... I'll keep you posted if it does. Gotta build some courage now

I'd say thanks for the complement but I actually stole the idea from this really lame soft-core sex comedy.
 

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been there plenty of nights and days, so far nothing. I think we both have a fear of making the first move :confused:

It sounds like more you order more interested in having had experience with one person rather than the generic straight man. There is nothing wrong with that. He is apparently your peer. I think you summed it up in both of you being afraid to make the first move.

Remember, someone has to or nothing happens. Decide to make that move; then decide what that move should be. As you apparently spend a lot of time together the occasion should arise, naturally. Self exposure, in some natural fashion is a good lead in. If he shows more and a casual interest, follow up on the lead. You may both be glad you did. The air gets cleared, if nothing else.

Keep us posted.
 

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Self exposure, in some natural fashion is a good lead in. If he shows more and a casual interest, follow up on the lead. You may both be glad you did. The air gets cleared, if nothing else.

Keep us posted.


There was this one time he walked out of the shower with a towel just covering his crotch and walked to the living room (where I was at) and was like "What are you watching?"... He'd never do that with anyone else around so I got caught off guard and freaked the fuck out LOL! It was just weird(?) I guess since he's never done that before. What to think of that?
 

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There was this one time he walked out of the shower with a towel just covering his crotch and walked to the living room (where I was at) and was like "What are you watching?"... He'd never do that with anyone else around so I got caught off guard and freaked the fuck out LOL! It was just weird(?) I guess since he's never done that before. What to think of that?

He may have considered that a move on his part. One that fell through. He probably thinks it's you turn. If that is correct, he wont allow the opportunity to pass. One never knows about people. If there was absolutely nothing to it. then no harm-no foul. Just an awkward moment. People remember those moments and try to avoid them.

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Being that I'm only interested in experimenting with another dude, how gay would you say I was: 10%, 20%, 30%... Not that it makes a difference to me, just would like your opinion :biggrin1:

Percentages make no particular difference. I wouldn't let that worry me. Not at all.

Besides, you got to try it before you can claim anything on the percentages!

Put all that aside. Go try and get what you want. That's the key thing.
 

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There was this one time he walked out of the shower with a towel just covering his crotch and walked to the living room (where I was at) and was like "What are you watching?"... He'd never do that with anyone else around so I got caught off guard and freaked the fuck out LOL! It was just weird(?) I guess since he's never done that before. What to think of that?

Absolutely that was a move. But you freaked out, and he was ready to freak out i response to your freak out.

It's definitely your turn. Do the same thing, except - say he's watching TV - plunk down on the sofa next to him. Let the towel fall down to the point where your pubes are showing a little. Let him get a look. (Another scenario: Plunk down and pull off the towel, throw it over your head and dry your hair. Takes some nerve, but totally gives him a safe opportunity to take a look.)

You'll probably catch him looking. Just let him see you noticing him looking. Don't have to say anything. AND DON"T FREAK OUT! Then say something about how boring the show he's got on is, and suggest a porno.

You've just hit a home run if you can pull that off.
 

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If you were 100% straight you would not be wanting to do this at all. Quit fooling yourself.

Not true. Some str8 guys who are curious and act on it find out they are bi or even gay. Others try it once and then they are over it and never try it again. I think those guys get to keep their 100% str8 credentials.
 

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It doesn't have to be a sexual orientation thing; I don't have any close gay friends. Plus, no offense, IMO it's probably alot easier to experiment with a gay guy than another fellow straight guy. We wouldn't be caught DEAD JO/BJing another straight guy!

Actually there is a group on LPSG that is for guys who are at least 80% str8 to JO with each other. Don't remember the exact name at the moment, but scroll through the groups and you'll find it.
 

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Do you think you have the power to convert a straight guy to have consensual sex with you? More power to ya, dude. Go fer it.

I have many times. I wouldn't call it "converting" though since it was just a one time deal. I'd call it "seducing." It is AMAZING how many str8 guys will accept a BJ from another guy.
 

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Being that I'm only interested in experimenting with another dude, how gay would you say I was: 10%, 20%, 30%... Not that it makes a difference to me, just would like your opinion :biggrin1:

Since you have never acted on it and haven't talked about any other male fantasies, I would say MAXIMUM 10% gay.
 

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There was this one time he walked out of the shower with a towel just covering his crotch and walked to the living room (where I was at) and was like "What are you watching?"... He'd never do that with anyone else around so I got caught off guard and freaked the fuck out LOL! It was just weird(?) I guess since he's never done that before. What to think of that?

Oh yeah, you missed your chance there. That was definitely a "first move" for him. You should have been cool.

Have you ever seen each other's cocks? If not, go some bar where the urinals don't have partitions. When he goes in to piss, follow him in and stand not at the next urinal but one down from that. If you stand right next to him he'll freak. Continue talking (that's why you had to stand somewhat near him instead of the two farthest ones away from each other). Then notice his cock and compliment him on it in a non-creepy way. "I'll bet the bitches love that!" has worked for me several times. LOL

Anyway, that will help break down the walls. After that start showering with the bathroom door open etc.
 
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This won't help with the particular guy you have in mind, but you might try the Bigger in Texas group on LPSG. http://www.lpsg.org/groups/149-bigger-texas/

I'll send you an invitation.

Outside of LPSG, there is also (some people won't like this) the Texas Bi Married Men's Network. Str8 married guys that like to fool around with other guys occasionally.
 

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Being that I'm only interested in experimenting with another dude, how gay would you say I was: 10%, 20%, 30%... Not that it makes a difference to me, just would like your opinion :biggrin1:

Being that you're only thinking about maybe experimenting with one specific dude but haven't gone further then masturbate (?) while you think about it I'd go with 0%.

Being that something happens and you two start JOing together and even touch each others pee-pees I'd go with 0%

Being that you decide to go further and become suck buddies I'd go with 0%

OK, I'm going for it. Being that you go full throttle and lick this one specific dudes asshole after which you put on a condom and anally penetrate him sorry buddy, you're still batting 0%.

If dudes in general start to turn you on more than chicks, we can re-explore at that point. Besides man. Who the fuck cares? Join the 21st century.
 

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There was this one time he walked out of the shower with a towel just covering his crotch and walked to the living room (where I was at) and was like "What are you watching?"... He'd never do that with anyone else around so I got caught off guard and freaked the fuck out LOL! It was just weird(?) I guess since he's never done that before. What to think of that?

Depending on how much of a rush you're in you could tease him some. Come out of the shower with a towel around you and a half boner or showing pubes, chat for a while then walk off and drop the towel so he gets a good look at your ass.