So I do not know what the hell is going on with me the last few years.. Let me explain, back when I was a teenager from 12 till about 19/20 i used to have no problem talking to girls or people in general. I would be able to initiate conversation with anyone and keep that conversation going.. Also with girls I would be ok at pulling them, I wouldn't say I was Casanova or anything but I could hook up now and again if I wanted to. However for some reason something has changed and for the life of me I do not know what!! Now to initiate and keep a conversation going is severe effort for me at times especially if it is outside of my friends, I sometimes think I just could not be bothered making conversation, and as for pulling women well that is none existent really... Take tonight for instant, I was in a bar and this girl I knew from where I worked (but never talked to only smiled at, but i think she is hot) was there and she came over to me and started talking to me etc.. asking why haven't I been in work the last few weeks (I am a contractor so I only work in a place for a few weeks at a time) I explained the story to her. So then she asked me to go to the casino with her as she is on her own, I couldn't go due to stuff happening tomorrow, she then said we could meet tomorrow evening, which we are doing but it is me her sister, her friend and my friend meeting. She gave me her number by the way. Now I know I could and should have gone with her to the casino tonight cause I could tell that she liked me (so did my mates) but I chickened out due to my "shyness". When she left the bar all I could think was why the f*** didn't I go to the casino with her. I'm not after just sex but I would like to be with her. Can anyone give me advice on what to do for tomorrow night, apart from getting drunk before I go to meet her because I don't really want to do that. Also tips on conversation topics would help cause all we really talked about was work and not much else for 1hour.